How do you turn a normal conversation into flirting?

HidetsuguofShinka · 2016-10-21T20:56:45+00:00

Told a girl I was flirting with I believed in "work hard, play hard."

Later she we were talking. She grins and says, "you gonna play hard tonight?"

I think that's how you do it OP.

Cthulu2013 · 2016-10-21T21:53:51+00:00

I have no idea how to flirt, but being disgustingly sarcastic has taken my Weiner many places

yummbeary · 2016-10-21T18:36:11+00:00

Babysteps.

Normal conversation
Kino
Sexual ambiguity, using the words thick, strong etc. in normal words and see how she reacts
If yes, escalate
More Kino, more escalation
The final stage is to tell her that she'd really want your cock in her mouth right now if you habe established superiority and comfort

This can happen all in 5 minutes or in 5h depening on the girl and your game. 💪🏻👍🏻👍🏻😊

_sl0throp_ · 2016-10-21T15:14:31+00:00

I have the same problem, I think the common answer is "Escalate. Escalate. Escalate"

Christian_Shepard · 2016-10-22T06:49:37+00:00

Well if you are star you can do anything. They'll let you do it. Grab em by the pussy.

nonsass · 2016-10-21T15:28:45+00:00

write out a pretend/hypothetical conversation you have with someone in a bar, starting with an approach which is not 'direct'

yellekeoj · 2016-10-21T15:50:16+00:00

Eye contact, touch them on shoulder, arm, hand, back, also break into their personal space

j2598 · 2016-10-22T06:18:06+00:00

Lower the tone toward the gutter

Originalskatman · 2016-10-21T21:45:40+00:00

Grab their crotch

Ruthlessman · 2016-10-21T22:54:26+00:00

I have seen a lot of bar meets, and most of my limited successes have had no escalation. Just going in for the kiss when she starts to seem interested seems the normal way to do it.

Dom-procopio · 2016-10-21T23:31:43+00:00

With adequate body language and proper voice tonality even a conversation about the weather can be flirty.

MobPsycho300 · 2016-10-22T14:45:00+00:00

I'll help ya out here. You need to let her come to you. Don't over invest in her or else she will think that you like her. The key to social circle game is to not let the girl think you like her. You want to keeo everything and i mean EVERYTHING mutual until you have sex with her. When you are in a social circle interaction don't be too eager to speak up in the group. ONLY speak if you actually have something important to add to the group conversation. And when you casually turn to talk to her DONT SMILE. But dont frown either. Just have a neutral expression as if talking to her isn't important to you. The next thing you wanna do is get PHYSICAL. Touch her here and there but only when the opportunity arises.

Title	How do you turn a normal conversation into flirting?
Author	BigBootyBear
Upvotes	30
Comments	30
Date	October 21, 2016 2:45 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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