How does a "Escalation Journey" look like?

ThatDarnSmell · 2025-10-02T19:47:33+00:00

It's a ymmv thing. Basically you two just connect to the point where you'd like to see each other again and pursue a potential relationship. It doesn't always involve things like kissing or having sex early on as a pre-req. I've had multiple girlfriends where we didn't have sex for over a month and they were great girlfriends. It's usually the ones where sex happened a bit too early on that ended up being miserable experiences and there was less qualifying. But ymmv.

Life-Income2986 · 2025-10-02T20:58:04+00:00

You're on a date. You don't need to be feeling her up to build attraction. She finds you physically attractive enough. That's why she's on a date with you. She's now trying to figure out if you're going to put her in a hole under a bridge.

Now, assuming I'm correct and she IS worried about an unsocialised sexually violent lunatic hurting her, what impression do you think she'll get if you start trying to immediately feel her up in public?

Matter_Still · 2025-10-02T21:15:12+00:00

Good God! It’s beyond astonishing how complicated Erik Von Markovik and his ilk made a simple human behavior into the interpersonal equivalent of propositional calculus!

Breaking down touch “systematically”? “Systematic journeys?” “A framework for dates”?

This is what it has come to: men see women like a problem to be solved. Good luck with that.

epimpstyle · 2025-10-02T21:16:14+00:00

funny conversation --> Transitioning to a less funny conversation to build tension --> Physical touch

You're missing that you can do multiple things at the same time, there is no need to make a "less funny conversation".... But you need to be careful , overdoing it is just as bad as not being funny at all.

Funny conversation --> Keep the playful vibe alive. Use light compliance tests and give 1–2 spikes ( that’s all the tension you need). Don’t lose the humor: exaggerate her replies, play with double meanings, and joke when she says things like 'big', 'wet', 'long' .... (you get the idea - this belongs to the "tension" you are talking about). At the same time. add physical touch.

See? You do multiple things at the same time and the funny/playful vibe is always in the air. Of course, in real life you can’t always be like that, but aim to drop a joke whenever the moment feels right and as I said, too much is just as bad as too little.

Title	How does a "Escalation Journey" look like?
Author	InternetRambo7
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Comments	5
Date	October 2, 2025 7:25 PM UTC (10 months ago)
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