So I have been thinking about this. Whenever I go to a date as a man, you could say I am open for everything. If it ends up in a casual hook up, I am cool with it. If I connect even more with the girl and a relationship is in sight, then I am cool with it.

How about the girls? What is going through their mind when they agree to a date? There is always this issue where I think If I say I am open for everything, she might think she is cheap in my eyes. If I say I am looking for something serious, she might be a city girl that thinks I am boring and she just wants to have fun.

What confuses me is this: I meet a girl lets say at night, where she is around a lot of people everyday at lets say "not so holy places". I would assume this person is very open and not necesseraly looking for something serious. Then I see their social media profile and they have some religious quotes. So I end up confused and asking myself what kind of person is this? How am I supposed to handle this girl at a date. Based on your experience, how do you explain these kind of situations and whats your advice?

Is there something that I have not understood due to my lack of experience with women?