How does a minority have success with dating?

StardustIIX · 2025-07-20T01:10:53+00:00

Race shouldn't have anything to do with your success. Sure people have preferences but overall how you feel about yourself and how you handle rejection is what matters most.

Looks get your foot in the door, but if you know how attraction works, what to say and how to act you'll far outclass any "flawless 10/10 guy".

jamesfalken · 2025-07-20T01:03:47+00:00

Be attractive

WholeMilkElitist · 2025-07-20T01:01:16+00:00

As long as you are attractive in all facets your race does not matter.

However that isn't to say that some women won't be attracted to you because of your race, but I've found attractiveness trumps all. It won't be held against you if you are a catch.

Zypherzor · 2025-07-20T01:17:48+00:00

You asked this question before bro (If I remember correctly.) Looks, money, social skills/personality, now a days even clout, improve all if not most of these things and you get success.

Badguy60 · 2025-07-20T01:05:32+00:00

Depends what race you are but it's not that hard

TheCuriousBread · 2025-07-20T01:28:49+00:00

Imagine you're a car salesman. In the current market, the hottest segment is trucks and SUVs. On the road you got Fords and Chevrolets and Dodges.

You sell Tata motors sedans.

You don't waste your time trying to convince someone who wants a truck about the merits of a tata sedan.

The number 1 rule of sales. Know your customer. The Jordan Belmont, straight line method. "Try to sell me this pen.". Idiots start yapping about how nice it writes, how nice it is to hold. They are idiots. Step 1 is you need to identify, does the customer have a need for a pen? If not, move on. Don't waste your time on people who aren't interested in your segment of market.

Don't try to sell a sedan to someone looking for a domestic truck.

How does that translate to seduction. Does your target have a history of dating minorities? Are they from a culturally diverse background? Are they curious about foreign cultures or are they as vanilla as it comes?

If they are as vanilla as they come. Refer to sales strategy one. Know your customer.

The game is different not because you're not white, it is different because you're an ethnic minority and most people don't have experience with it.

It'd be same but the other way if say a white man tries to date in Japan or Korea.

Title	How does a minority have success with dating?
Author	AcanthaceaeTop2796
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Comments	17
Date	July 20, 2025 12:57 AM UTC (1 year ago)
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