How does an average guy hook up with a Tinder match?

hunterpua · 2018-01-08T20:24:46+00:00

This is really simple man. Lots of girls on Tinder that just wanna fuck too. The problem is there are also girls that want something that is somewhere between just a quick lay and finding their prince charming.

Just change your bio to one that obviously shows you want to get laid. Something like, "Ran out of lube. Thinking about going organic. Would really appreciate a lovely girl that could help me with that." that way you filter out everyone that's in between and you can pretty much skip dates and go straight to sex.

Once you get matches out of that bio don't ask them if they are DTF just message them as if they are. Immediately start talking sexual and discuss the logistics of how you two are gonna meet to have sex.

jackofspades39 · 2018-01-08T03:23:34+00:00

Firstly, a lot of people suggest to do real life game instead of invest all your resources into Tinder, so I’d like to preface with that!

Anyway, i think you should try suggesting that you guys go out, and instruct her to text you. Girls who are interested will invest the time into texting you to set up the date, whereas those who aren’t really interested will not. I’ve been able to screen for interest this way recently.

I matched with a girl on Tinder recently and, after a brief convo, suggested we do something after New Years; i instructed her to text me. She said “okay, sounds good,” but never texted me. Kind of a bummer, but you learn to deal with it and see that she really isn’t that interested.

I think as long as you don’t give her a reason to not text or want to go out with you, you should do fine, especially if you do well on Tinder like you say.

Another thing i just learned from RSDMax today: comfort leads to arousal in women, and the opposite is true in men. When you’re on the date, aim to make her comfortable with you. A girl who isn’t comfortable now won’t be open to getting plowed later.

phoenixLucifer · 2018-01-08T03:56:49+00:00

I hate tinder, I always strike out on there.

And I'm the type of guy who can go to the bar any night and take a girl home.

I think part of tinder as with any social media is presentation. You need like some of the best pictures of yourself, and they need to show off your looks and features.

Now if your looking for sex, obviously don't put a picture up with you and your mom hanging out. That 'll attract the exact opposite of the type of girl you want. A picture of you lifting weights, playing sports, ect will work. Doesn't have to be something so jocky, as long as it brings out some features of yourself that girls deem attractive, you are golden.

Now once you get the match, I can't help you there with conversation part cause I suck with tinder conversations.

As for what to do for meeting up, going to her place or your place to watch a movie is pretty obvious, but it works. Dinner and drinks is what worked for my one tinder match I did get lucky with. Providing you are over 21 of course.

Wish I could help you better but hopefully I at least pointed you in the right direction

jackofspades39 · 2018-01-08T05:00:46+00:00

I did very poorly at parties when I once tried talking to girls there so I suspect not, but my technique was pretty terrible so that’s a possible explanation. Also at home I have tried ridiculous techniques on Tinder like being more flirtatious and do not get good responses, so I’m guessing I’m not that good-looking.

jackofspades39 · 2018-01-08T05:13:18+00:00

Have a really good picture that emphasizes your physical appearance. Girls do this all the time, guys rarely do. Thats why we do truckstop restroom selfies with a urinal in the back and wonder why we don't get quality matches.

2018-01-08T21:45:55+00:00

I ask for the girls number within the first few messages. This separates the girls looking for an ego boost from the girls that actually want to meet.

This has been a game changer for me. If they give me resistance, I get their snap chat instead. After a few snaps, I get their number. If a girl is an HB6 or worse and gives me resistance, I next them. I "play" the game with 7s and 8s for a few more messages to build rapport. I've only number closed a couple 9s, but have never ended up meeting a 9 in person

For reference I consider myself to be an hb 7-8, and my level of success with women seems to support that because most of the girls I meet are hb 7-8s

simpleafk · 2018-01-08T03:23:50+00:00

The biggest success in regards to hooking up using tinder is to be straight forward with your intentions. If the girls aren't down, then ignore it and move on to the next girl you match with. I just tell them I want things to be casual. Take pictures and try to find the best ones. Ask your girl friends which ones they perfer and go from there. I'm average looking and i matched with 80 girls within 5 days when I visited Toronto. I hooked up with only 4. Don't let scarcity lower your standards.

Title	How does an average guy hook up with a Tinder match?
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Date	January 8, 2018 2:57 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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