I have been without sex for a considerable amount of time for various reasons. If I had to reduce them to a nutshell, they are the following:

1) Engineering. I've had to sacrifice my social life just to stay afloat in my major, which I finally finished this past spring.

2) Not wanting to take advantage of women solely for sex. The type of women I want to have sex with do not seem to be the type to comply with an open relationship.

3) My standards are too high. I am overreaching for women who are way out of my league. I know what some you guys will say in that there is no league. Let's all be real: that's bullshit.

My predicament is this: there are women who have gone out of their way to give me their numbers. I know if I really wanted to I could take them on a date and possibly have sex with them. However, they are not exactly up to my standards for maximum arousal. What I do not want is the potential emotional aftermath of it in the probable event that their feelings get hurt. However, I also want to get laid without being in a relationship unless the girl is extremely hot.

Can anyone relate to what I am saying or am I blowing air out of my asshole?

Thanks.