How has smiling change your game?

6fihgures · 2019-12-17T03:33:40+00:00

Knowing my happy ass, I’ve always tend to laugh and smile to the point in where I find myself squinting. Trust me, I’ve got a bulldog face when it’s rested too and it makes me look criminal but the moment I grin or laugh it’s the most attractive thing yet to females. It’s all about energy. Girls see you having a good ass time, they’re gonna want to have a good ass time with you too because they want that energy. Positive energy goes a loong way

magnetradio · 2019-12-17T05:15:26+00:00

I've learned that when you're in your own world having fun, women want to join in. Think about it.

Imagine sitting at a table and you see 5 attractive women talking and giggling with one another. Doesn't that attract you? It works the same way with women.

If you have resting bitch face, give a slight smirk when women are around. Don't do it because you want the women to like you. Do it as a way of saying, "I'm not angry or a dickhead".

BratePustiMe · 2019-12-17T11:16:20+00:00

Im a girl so its not quite what you're looking for, but holy hell smiling and laughing changes the whole vibe a person radiates, both for women and men.

I find that when I smile or laugh, guys are more attracted to me. When I see a guy smiling and laughing it just makes me want to come up to him so he could make me laugh too.

It also makes people seem way more approachable and interesting.

Hope this helps kinda :)

ImJustSo · 2019-12-17T14:52:24+00:00

From a different post I responded to related to this:

You don't need permission to look at someone and they don't need permission to look at you. This means that it's entirely up to you to decide when you'll look away. Start paying attention to what makes you look away from someone first. Look at men, look at women, look at children. Look at everyone's eyes and start paying attention. You'll find that it's easier to look into some people's eyes and impossible to look at others. You just make it a game to "discover which people are which".

Onwards to smiling! Whenever I walk from point A to point B, I concentrate on relaxing my jaw so that my teeth aren't together. This way I can feel the muscles moving around my eyes and know that they're relaxed, too. This is "primed to smile".

If I were walking around with clenched jaws and tight eyes, I'm primed for confrontation. Like the world could hurt me at any second.

I'm relaxed, I'm confident, I'm primed to smile. Now....moving on to what I'm thinking about while moving from A to B. I'm soaking in the world, I'm paying attention to everything, that way when something comes up worth paying attention, then I'm aware! Maybe a pretty girl smiled? Maybe she dodged a bee right as she looked into my eyes, breaking our second together?

Welp! Since I'm paying attention, then I know it's time to smile and point out how silly life is! I've been waiting to smile this whole time. I've been counting the second until I get the chance to smile! I'm so ridiculous...but that's just me. Yep, I'm an idiot that's just waiting to smile. Oh, hello, gorgeous! Boom, she smiles back. That's loving life.

Get yourself into a mood to smile and relax. Look for shit to smile about. Be happy, be fun, be inquisitive, be passionate, because people love it and then you'll always feel like you have permission to look into their eyes.

P.s. My eye contact is like trying to stare into the sun, or so I'm told.

CoBudemeRobit · 2019-12-17T05:13:57+00:00

I feel like when I 'try' to smile it looks creepy so I 'try' to keep a smirk happening and for some reason even that little bitch ass smirk makes everything feel better and people feel invited to share my space. It's been a game changer

harryhoudini66 · 2019-12-17T18:01:51+00:00

Having a genuine good time with friends attracts people in general. They either want to be part of the fun or hate you from the sidelines.

yourexecution · 2019-12-17T14:49:01+00:00

It happens to me when I went to a dance club with two friends (girls). I just focused on have a good time and drink some alcohol in order to make some dance moves (I used to be very shy at dancing) and suddenly some girl was staring at me. She made a lot of eye contact. I didn't make a move because I was actually shocked about it and was kinda shy at that time. The girl was so pretty btw. So it always helps if you can smile naturally, just have a good time wherever you go.

hubbycaps · 2019-12-17T15:43:40+00:00

I have a resting bitch face too. I try to compensate by forcing a smile sometimes to look more approachable which I think might make me look like an idiot lol (neutral is best I think). Also, when I smile, my massive nose looks even bigger which then defeats the purpose as I now look too ugly to get attraction from the girl anyway!! haha

Lakersrock111 · 2019-12-17T13:37:32+00:00

People call me smiley quite a bit because I just smile a lot!! I also have a very adorable symmetrical face and the kind that people want to bang. And that’s just my “resting face”. If I am trying to be sexy obviously they are turned on, but I do have to try. Usually laughter ensues too!!

MrColfax · 2019-12-17T07:03:37+00:00

I've never had that great of a naturally good smile. I inherited my mouth from my Dad's side of the family whereas the top lip sorta curves down instead of up, meaning I can never have a beaming easy still like most people. My sisters do which is annoying (they must have my mum's genes). Sometimes my "smile" comes off nice when I see photos etc when I wasn't trying, which is ok.

I agree with what most people here have said in that girls are attracted to guys who are smiling, laughing or smirking - just generally having fun - which to me is a no-brainer. Heck, even if you're not trying to attract girls you still come off as positive and friendly toward other people whether it be at work, a party, or with family etc. However, as previously explained I generally have a somewhat "resting bitch face" so when I am bored, pissed off or I'm not having fun then I REALLY look that way. Sometimes people have even asked if I'm ok.

This though reminds me of something; earlier this year on TV here in Australia there was this show called Married At First Sight where couples would meet for the first time (ie a blind date) and "marry" each other, and the families would be at their "weddings." There was this one episode where a contestants brother was swooned over by women because of his steely looks and brooding. He did not smile once and girls still dug him majorly (tattoos prob helped). Here is a link https://www.news.com.au/entertainment/tv/reality-tv/married-at-first-sight/mafs-fans-go-wild-over-brides-extremely-attractive-brother/news-story/d13a08e4ace15866d12239f7fc03a9ec

Title	How has smiling change your game?
Author	wewmon
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Date	December 17, 2019 3:13 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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