How often is the average looking man rejected?

muckbrigade · 2019-08-02T14:13:03+00:00

From a completely 'cold approach', unless you are very very handsome, expect to get rejected a TONNE! You need thick skin in this game. It's just a numbers game at the end of the day. The better looking you are, the easier the game is, but that doesn't mean you can't make your own luck and find hot girls who think you are hot (even if most girls don'r think you are hot)

personal taste exists.

You need to exploit that fact by playing the numbers.

Simple as that

Also, take what your friends say with a pinch of salt. There's a million variables I could go into here, but a big one is IOI's. Some guys look like they never get rejected, but that's because they're selective and only ever actually approach when they can tell that a a girl is into them/just checked them out. And some guys are just handsome as shit. Some bang whales. And some guys will lie out of their ass to you!! (especially kids online lol)

If you knew how often these pro youtube PUA's got rejected, people wouldn't be quite as impressed

Sexythrowaway252 · 2019-08-02T13:48:57+00:00

Depends on how many chances that man takes.

kalz44 · 2019-08-02T13:52:27+00:00

A lot. Rejection is part of dating and it'll be something you'll need to accept and looks don't matter as much as you think.

TheXXL · 2019-08-02T14:07:12+00:00

According to the pareto rule, something around 80 to 99.9999% depending on a extreme high number of variables.

In any case, knowing a concrete percentage is just a waste of time, it doesn't change the fact that every one has to work hard to get somewhere. The only thing you should know is that you will lose a lot, but sometimes win a little, and very rarely win a bit more.

bournit · 2019-08-02T14:34:33+00:00

A lot. And you can't avoid this if you really want to learn pickup and choose the girls you bang. Other story if they choose you, and you learn little or nothing. Rejection is part of the game , at every scale (think to how many spermatozoons are "rejected" to make just one got inside the egg), and - hold yourself - CAN'T have all the girls you try to pickup.

This is how natural selection works, it's Darwin theory baby, and , despite it is so evil, this principle fortunately exists and produced super smart mammalians writing on keyboards now, called humans.

Don't think your friends or dating coaches or whoever don't get rejected. They simply don't speak about those cases. It is a defensive strategy between males to old down "betas" , or ACF, and preserve alpha's domain. Alpha prefers to bang 3 hot chicks in the same week, and get rejected 300 times, respect being a "beta" and bang 0 because get rejected 4 times is too much for you.

That's what I discovered trought time (in only 7 months BTW) , I hope this motivates you get outside there and get tons of rejections, desensitize and let results come when don't expect them anymore.

ImmodestPolitician · 2019-08-02T16:59:35+00:00

Depends on how you define rejected.

Cold approach girls will banter about 50%

Once bantering, I get a phone number 80% of the time, but a lot of those are fake numbers.

Women I meet in bars probably 20-30% phone numbers leads to day 1.

Daygame will have worse odds probably.

It totally depends on who you approach.

Hot girls with lots of options are different than girls you are more attractive than the guy.

Actually sleeping with 5% of the women you approach would be amazing success IMO.

IntoxicatedOrange · 2019-08-02T18:06:08+00:00

I'm an average looking man and I get rejected about 95% of the time from IRL approach, much worse online (to the point that it's not even worth doing online dating anymore). Once I actually get on a date with someone then it's much better, like maybe 50%.

hilhil83 · 2019-08-03T06:23:21+00:00

i dont understand you guys-- what thi sassumption that chicks DONT want regular guys? no woman wants some souped up pompous dick as their man except golddiggers and hoodrats.

Title	How often is the average looking man rejected?
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Date	August 2, 2019 1:41 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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