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[–]touch_my_gucci_snake 24 points25 points26 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Better move quick before she moves on to another guy. Compliment her on something you like about her. You might like her physical appearance, but usually women ‘expect’ a compliment on it. Especially if they’re obviously smoking hot. Don’t do this. Instead, dig a little deeper to find something about her character and then compliment her on that and make a conversation about it. That’ll make her realize you’re into more than just her looks. Also, when in the conversation, speak to her like you would to your greatest, non-sexual, best girl-friend. When she’s speaking about herself, show interest. Eye Contact, subtly match body language, repeat her answers every now and again so she knows you’re listening, and laugh. All of these ‘should’ come naturally if you’re into her and comfortable around her.
That’s my 2 cents. Good luck!
[–]Godletrich[S] 3 points4 points5 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Thank you so much for this 👌 I will do my best
[–]hydrolith 66 points67 points68 points 5 years ago (21 children) | Copy Link
I'd approach her on a friendly and comfortable non sexual vibe to see how she responded to me and talk for a bit if she's open to it, just talk about the ice bath experience. Tell her you think she looks great and your like to get together with her sometime if she's available. Be open and positive to whatever her response is. Get her number if she's interested, set up a time and place to meet, give her a hug, hold hands, kiss, and then eat her pussy.
[–]Godletrich[S] 12 points13 points14 points 5 years ago (19 children) | Copy Link
Thanks for your answer man. The thing is, everything is closed and under lockdown in my country so we just can't hang out except some walks. But how should I say it that I would like to get together with her sometime. We are always with a group, never alone and it may be just weird to ask her out in front of everybody. I am new to dating so I don't have that much experience and confidence
[–]LegsAkimbo85 30 points31 points32 points 5 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Just pull it out and helicopter away. She'll get the point, bruv. Good luck to you!
[–]KirkVanHootin 11 points12 points13 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Just make sure to helicopter BEFORE the cold bath
[–]Godletrich[S] 4 points5 points6 points 5 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
idk what you mean by that man English is not my native language sorry :D I just don't want to do large steps.
[–]LegsAkimbo85 31 points32 points33 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Say no more. The helicopter has stood the test of time but might be a bit of a large step if you're not that confident.
[–]ModernManLevi 5 points6 points7 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Lmao
[–]jc2250 18 points19 points20 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Since no one explained he’s talking about swinging your dick around in circles fast enough that it creates lift as a helicopter would and you fly away with the milf
[–]Godletrich[S] 5 points6 points7 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Holy molly🤣🤣🤣🤣 Thanks for your explanation, I have never heard this before thats why I asked.
[–]ModernManLevi 4 points5 points6 points 5 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link
You could ask her when you're done bathing and are walking to the car together for example.
[–]Godletrich[S] 3 points4 points5 points 5 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
Good advice, realistic. Will try that out thanks:)
[–]ModernManLevi 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
Keep me updated boss ;-)
[–]Godletrich[S] 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
I will do another post if I ask her out. As you said a great example of walking to car. What if we are just not alone walking to car ( that we are in a group) .. I am shy to hit on her and ask her out in front of other people who know us. Is it only my insecurity or how would you do that?
[–]ModernManLevi 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Are you familiar with no biggie (or low-key) energy? It's a very relaxed and no-pressure energy, which can help you in this situation. In this case you wanna isolate her, which is actually a good instinct. "Hey I wanna ask you something. Only takes a sec or 2 :)"
[–]Godletrich[S] 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
So, basically what you are saying is isolate ourselves from the group?
[–]ModernManLevi 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Yea. That way you can keep this 'our little secret' and it doesn't affect either of you. You can do it this way, or you can walk up to her window when she's already in the car. It's a private matter that calls for a private conversation know what I mean?
[–]Godletrich[S] 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Oh yes I know what you mean thats a perfect idea and + realistic. So I just walk up the her window, * knock knock * and then I just tell her that I find her attractive, she seem pretty fun and talkative, and if she would like to take a walk in the nature. Something like this?
[–]ModernManLevi2 points 5 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Yea definitely.
[–]Godletrich1 point 5 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Alright thank you very much👊
[–]YetzirahToAhssiah 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Sounds like she obviously likes you. Just keep talking to her, more eye contact. If she keeps looking at you, talking to you, she's very likely to go out with you.
Which would be worse:
1) You ask her out, no one really hears, and even if they do, they just witnessed you express interest in a beautiful woman, or
2) Do nothing, remember this for the rest of your life as the beautiful woman who probably wanted you, but you were too scared to pursue?
[–]Godletrich[S] 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
What a mindset. I will definitely go with the first one. Thanks man. It seems she likes me but it just seems, only she knows the reality. But I will do this
[–]e66666666666666666 -3 points-2 points-1 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Cringe
[–][deleted] 25 points26 points27 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I dont have the facilities for that big man
[–]The_New_Me1982 8 points9 points10 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Not sure what all the cold river bath entails but sounds like a great opportunity to take her for coffee
[–]Godletrich[S] 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Your idea is great, however everything is closed in my country.
[–]The_New_Me1982 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Bring a thermos and a couple cups and offer her some riverside time
Thanks for the idea man!👊
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[–]srowland12 4 points5 points6 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
This. I didn't know communal bathing in rivers was a thing, so this is very interesting to hear.
It's quite popular and its a very good thing for your health and body
[–]Godletrich[S] 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yes it's very common. You can find some facebook groups doing near your city. If you don't find them on social media then just take a walk to the riverside or lakeside sometimes and observe whether to find someone bathing in cold water. I also recommend you joinining Facebook group Wim Hof Method. Many american people are there and you never know if you meet up with someone:)
[–]theflippityjim 4 points5 points6 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Make. this. happen. Not just for you, for all of us. Do not let us down, man!
[–]Godletrich[S] 4 points5 points6 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
You won't be dissapointed
[–]theflippityjim 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Whys the conversation removed?
It says: removed, specific situation... idk why
[–]xtc20271 3 points4 points5 points 5 years ago* (5 children) | Copy Link
Bro this is how you do it, I was into older women when I was younger as well and managed to have relationships with a few. So here's the deal:
One of these days after the swim or some day ask her if she would like to go have tea or eat something whatever. Older women are pretty aloof to the fact that you may be interested in them, if you take too long she will place in a "young" column. OK, when you are out with her have a normal talk ask her about her interest and about her life etc.. and really listen to her and laugh etc.. before you all are done straight up tell her that you find her attractive and if she has ever considered "hanging" with a younger guy. She will most likely laugh and say no, but this is the first step.
An older woman will have to conceive in her mind that she could be open to it. She will be caught off guard but you have already passed two important test with her:
These traits she equates as "man" traits.
When she initially turns you down don't fret just be like, ok I tried but we should definitely meet again for tea or whatever because this has been fun and I enjoy your company.
OK, understand this, older women are a longer term project to get but well worth it.
Just be cool, keep talking to her as a friend but keep doing the "man" Things in her mind listen AND every now and then make it clear that you are interested.
What is happening is that in the meantime she is weighing all of this in her mind, it takes a little time but if she keeps talking and meeting with you know that she is definitely considering it.
At some point she will give you the sign and when you get it take it.
That's how it goes.
The keys are to listen and be forward spaced out over time.
I got a 27 year old at 19 a 38 year old at 22 and early 50's at around 22-23.
You just have to know how a woman thinks surprise her by countering her pre conceived ideas.
Good luck!
EXTRA NOTE: If she happens to be real horny and a bit wild all this still applies but pay attention to how she responds when you tell her that you are interested. If she is naughty she will play hard to get to see if you can hang. Play her game and proceed with more forwardness and she will def decide to give you a chance to sleep with her.
I have some tips on how to handle that should that be the case because you have to know how to sexually handle an older woman when you are that young so if you get any traction let me know and I'll fill you in.
OK I'll just tell you, you HAVE to eat pussy with older women. Eat her pussy until she orgasms and then give her the D unless she ask for before she orgasms. If your pussy eating game is weak which prob is at 19, research and have a strategy before hand.
There are few more things but this is fundamental.
Sorry if there are any typos no time to proof read.
Thanks a lot for your answer. You are a boss, you had 3 milf. What a boss😎👊👊 I will definitely take this advice. But if she says no straight away then the rest of the message is useless.
[–]xtc20271 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Bro I think you misunderstood something I said. She will most likely say no straight away. That first no is part of the process. If she is still willing to hang with you then door is still open REMEMBER: A woman has to first conceive of the idea in her mind before she will say yes. If she hangs out with you or keeps talking to you after the first no that means she is conceiving of the idea of being with you in her mind so you just go along with it. You get it?
So when you get the No don't bug about it it's all part of the process. That first no often means " I need time to conceive of it in my mind".
Let me know that you understand this part because it is very important to succeeding at this.
Ahh yes I get it now, I understand. So after the first " no" a week later maybe I should ask her out one more time?
[–]xtc20271 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Yes, space it out but keep it consistent.
Roger that!
[–]JulieWulie80 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (12 children) | Copy Link
If you've got her Facebook just send her a message on there asking if she would like to meet up sometime, you could suggest a walk if other options are limited. Saves you from having to approach her when you are both in a larger group
[–]Godletrich[S] 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (11 children) | Copy Link
Thats true. It might work out. Thank you for your response:) I just need to think about how to tell her I want to go out with her because she is way older than me
[–]JulieWulie80 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
What's the worst that can happen? She can say no, i bet she will be flattered even if she isn't interested
We all experience rejection, it's a good learning curve in dating life.
You'll be so proud of yourself that you owned up and said something though, rather than forever wondering what if 😊
Nice words. You are true. I will do this:)
[–]TallDarkandBot 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
No, do it in person.
[–]Godletrich[S] 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Both has pros and cons. But in person I can at least see her reaction and I can look her in eyes.
[–]TallDarkandBot 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
There are very little, if any, pros to doing it online if you are able to do it in person. You want to create excitement with her, that is far easier to do in person and will lay the ground work for the actual date
Yes it makes sense. I will go with asking her out in person. Thank you
[–]YetzirahToAhssiah 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I agree with this other comment. Online is weak, in person is strong.
[–]YetzirahToAhssiah 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
You don't need a reason, a specific way or method.
You want her. It sounds like she wants you.
That's the only reason anyone needs.
Okay mate thanks I will go with that
[–]YetzirahToAhssiah 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link
Good luck! I'd say talk to her for at least 10 minutes, ideally 20, before asking her out. That's not when you have to leave, either. But I wouldn't just walk up to her and ask her out right when you see her.
Remember: Eye contact!
I would do that but most of the time we are in the group and outside of the water ( on the shore) everybody is talking to everybody and in water everyone is silent😃 I will try to talk to her and then ask her out
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
What do you do after the bath? What does she do after the bath? Try to meet her after she's done bathing and ask to get a coffee somewhere.
Usually everybody just runs a few meters to get warm and then we just take on the clothes and go away. Unfortunately everything is closed and under lockdown in my country. But I will try the best option
[–]insearchofgoodmaal 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
"I get hungry after a bath. How about you?". "Oh yeah. I do too" "Great - get a bite and a drink together?" She's agreeable to hanging out more. Unless you completely don't vibe, I'd say you're in.
Alternate: "Naaa. I'm not hungry." "Ok. How about you try getting here next time on an empty stomach?" If she's into you, she'll say yes of course.
Not a bad idea mate, not a bad idea. The restaurants are closed and in my place, and my parents are always at home because I am not living on my own yet. But I will try to manage this somehow. Your advice would be amazing if it worked in my country regarding restrictions. I will use that when this is over
[–]sendindaninja 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
There's obvious signs of flirting, as a younger male, you have the advantage, think of younger female attracted to older male.
Be mature when flirting, don't talk about shit she doesn't care about like call of duty or economics...
When your in, go to town on that ass...and i mean go to town....
[–]llImHereCuzImBoredll 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Please never approach a woman in the grocery store. It’s sexual harassment.
Regarding this issue, why not just message her on FB and ask her to hangout? Don’t make it sexual, don’t tell she looks good naked (she already knows that because you’re messaging her).
[–]Godletrich[S] 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Why is it considered a sexual harrasment when I just casually talk to a stranger?
[–]llImHereCuzImBoredll 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Because your intent is to seduce in an essential space. The woman isn’t necessarily choosing to be there (she needs to get food somewhere) so if you do something that creeps her out she can’t reasonably never come back. Seducing at a bar? Fine. The woman can go to a different bar.
[–]hob814 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
She seems to have interests in you so straight is a good option. Ask her out.
Imma do that thanks 👊👊
[–]LongLiveDetroit 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
What the fuck?
[–]Godletrich[S] 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
What
[–]LongLiveDetroit -1 points0 points1 point 5 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Do u live in a village or something
[–]Godletrich[S] 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
A small town around 10 000 population..
[–]LongLiveDetroit -1 points0 points1 point 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Where do you live that its normal to bathe with a bunch of people in a river 😭
[–]Godletrich[S] 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Slovakia. We fuck restrictions. It's considered as a sport activity. We are only 10-20 people so not that much. Not 50.
It's not allowed to do that but we are one year in this pandemic and nothing changed so why to follow the damn government rules
[–]seovibe 5 years ago [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link
First of all, don't make it a big deal. Don't treat her as special.
Do yourself a favour and get into the abundance mindset. There is a LOT of sexy girls out there. A LOT. Sexy girls is the most abundant resource in the universe.
This will help you relax as you will not give a fuck about her anymore, which is attractive for a woman. It will help you take more risks.
Don't wait any longer and either pull her for a walk, only you and her during the bath/after the bath. This is the best option. Pull her for a walk somewhere. Just say: Hey X, come with me I want to show you something... Take her for a walk.
While in isolation, stop in front of her, eye contact, get a bit closer. She lets you do it?
Yes - You are in. No? Maybe she needs more time.
Option 2- Text her, hey X... bullshit funny thing tease. Hey X... you look like a cute dolphin with that white bathing suit. Be careful and don't go to Japan...
Bullshit like this. Whatever, now I just thought this on my feet as I type.
Chat a bit and invite her out for a walk or picnic with private bath together only you and her one day and escalate from there.
Remember, don't give a fuck.
I am taking a screenshot of this advice because this is gold. You came up with such a good phrases. Thanks mate a lot 👊👊 I will do my best
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[–]swhatrulookinat 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I'm more curious about wtf your doing taking cold baths in the river with a group of people...
Why not? It's a form of lifestyle, hobby and meditation. It prevents you from getting ill, it boosts your immune system and you might get to know new people:)
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