How to avoid getting into the friendzone with women?

smoothmax · 2019-07-23T17:45:30+00:00

Richard LaRuina aka Gambler has a video talk about friendzone. He says he has no fear of getting friendzoned because (1) friend-girls will introduce him to their friends, (2) he brings them and his other friend-girls to clubs where they give him social proof as someone popular with girls, (3) if he's attracted to a friend-girl he can turn on the attraction with laser eye contact, pauses that build sexual tension, and other subtle means.

Look up the video it's pretty good.

Of course, this doesn't mean that you act like a gay friend or a needy "orbiter" always doing favors for her and acting like a jealous pussy if she gets hit on by other guys. Your frame is you're a cool guy and a sexual threat, who doesn't need to bang every girl you hang out with.

EDIT I'm a bit repetitive and these posts might sound contradictory but there is more than one path to success ...

erZoption · 2019-07-23T15:19:46+00:00

You signal hat you do not want to be friends with them.

If you’re in the friendzone, move on to someone else.

techsave · 2019-07-23T17:18:42+00:00

I think you friendzone yourself... if your conversation are just casual, i advice you should change it to some thing seducing...start telling her how she is beautiful, women are bless with emotional reasoning, she would start seeing you as a potential date....

slickestwood · 2019-07-23T16:12:02+00:00

I'd tell you to just make a move, but if you've been friends a while, it'll likely seem too out of the blue. Just tell her how you feel. "Hey, since we've been hanging out/talking a lot more, I think I'm catching feelings for you and just need to know if you're feeling the same way. If not, no biggie, I'll get past it and we'll remain just as good of friends as we are now." Something casual like that has worked for me in the past. Just don't come off as needy, just like you're stating a fact and asking a simple question.

darksidessj25 · 2019-07-23T20:26:49+00:00

Eye contact, and good vibes. It's all in your character as well. Women love it when you can just be yourself with them. You also want to be really present. Girls give you hints when they are interested in you. Such as preening, glances, eye contact, face touching/scratching. These are all subconscious gestures of attraction.

BetterBeLuckyThanGud · 2019-07-23T21:29:33+00:00

might be dumb , but i don`t advice texting that much in the beginning.
The moment you already wrote too much , its friendzone time.

In this case , i think you already are in it.

Sometimes because of lack of experience , you`ll realized that you don`t really like her , but like the idea of beeing with her. Its fantasy. It`s a heading nowhere road.

If you truly enjoy her , you need to gauge her interest in you. How much do you think she is attracted into you? Read her body language.

If 0 interest, move on and learn from mistakes.

All the girls orbiting around me are the one i half ignore. If you show too much interest in someone , "it`s too easy" and is not attractive. Its my choice to half ignore , but text should be only for logistic anyway.

for me this one girl from your work , move on already. Focus on next Girl you like.

Then proceed to flirt , non texting exept logistic . Learn push pull. you`re only pulling women , its not attractive.

Polarize with her the same way i`m polarizing this post with this new paragraph.

Last resort solution with girl from work : slowly show less interest into her but into new passions, disqualify her all the time " I never thought you would be XXXX " what ever you say , make her invest.
Trust me , the moment you really ler her go/away from your mind/heart, she will be the one attracted to you. It`s the irony of the game. Yet it has to be subtle and slow . do it

Title	How to avoid getting into the friendzone with women?
Author	bootyeater99
Upvotes	2
Comments	17
Date	July 23, 2019 3:11 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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