How to cold approach without getting antsy?

Elegant_Weasel · 2022-03-18T23:50:46+00:00

some simple, practical advice to help get past approach anxiety, learn some canned material, and use It on every approach. maybe have a few things ready for versatility. it takes a lot of the worry out of it if you know exactly what to say, even if it's just "hey, I'm X"

also, make sure you have realistic goals. if you're battling approach anxiety, your criteria for success probably shouldn't be same day sex. instead, a "win" should be like "did you say what you meant to say? did you have good body language? good eye contact?" those kinds of things, and progress from there.

howdatingworks · 2022-03-19T02:16:14+00:00

practice, practice, practice, but make sure you practice the right way. This means having the right body language, mindset, and smile, and asking fun personal questions that get her to do at least 80% of the talking while you ask more questions, joke around, and gauge your enjoyment of the conversation. Full details to maximize your success here:

https://www.howdatingworks.com/blog/how-to-be-attractive (body language/mindset/appearance)

https://www.howdatingworks.com/blog/how-to-meet-women (approaching, opening, talking)

https://www.howdatingworks.com/blog/how-to-ask-out-a-girl (making the close)

you can't feel it between every single approach, but over time you notice that the more your approach, the less you fear it, until you can strike up a conversation with anyone effortlessly while having no nerves whatsoever. All it takes is repetition and a good attitude

Fate-in-haze · 2022-03-18T23:44:23+00:00

Read Models by Mark Manson.

2022-03-19T14:38:06+00:00

Look at as easy XP points, and understand that you’ll probably never see the person again

Illustrious-Exit290 · 2022-03-19T17:00:48+00:00

Well try to not see it as a game.

Title	How to cold approach without getting antsy?
Author	determinator94
Upvotes	2
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Date	March 18, 2022 11:16 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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