My job gives me the opportunity to talk to hundreds of beautiful women every day but I lack the fundamental skills to open up a conversation, and if I do, I don’t know how to keep it flowing properly. I know people say the obvious “use your surroundings” but I need someone to break it down for me in its simplest form. I lack picking up on social cues so I wouldn’t even know when it’s acceptable to flirt.

There have been times where a woman has given me an alley oop and I didn’t even realize I bombed it till much later.

It’s like I’m naturally witty and charming but when my actions become conscious and intentional, I lose that ability and become timid and weird.

I know , PRACTICE. Of course. I’m also looking for someone to just put an outline on it, a template so I have something to work with.