How to handle rejection ?

jshogan999 · 2019-10-23T18:19:36+00:00

I think you just have to expose yourself to rejection enough that it no longer affects you. Biologically speaking, rejection used to mean certain death back in the cave man days so it’s natural for it to feel horrible to face rejection but in this day and age that is obviously not the case so I find that reminding myself of that is helpful. Also a helpful quote: rejection is redirection. Be thankful when anyone rejects you because it means less of your time wasted on someone who doesn’t reciprocate your feelings. Rejection doesn’t mean you’re not loveable or valuable, it just means that person isn’t meant for you. Just make a conscious effort not to take it personally and let it roll off your back, dust yourself off and try try again! Hope this helps :)

boodie_1961 · 2019-10-23T18:34:41+00:00

Learn to read the body language. Approaching girls that don't give you the 'body language' green light is a waste of time and self-esteem

KingRandor82 · 2019-10-23T19:08:15+00:00

Heh heh heh; I'm Autistic...you just get used to it ;)

nmbrod · 2019-10-23T20:25:04+00:00

Rejection is actually incompatibility.

Jay_Bonk · 2019-10-23T21:24:47+00:00

Experience. To be honest, at least in my case, with a woman you truly feel for it will never get easier or barely. But in general you can definitely use practice and experience to improve. I don't even care when a woman rejects me anymore.

boodie_1961 · 2019-10-23T21:55:59+00:00

Looking at you and smiling, playing with her hair, feet pointing towards you, there are plenty of videos on youtube.

Kylemoa1 · 2019-10-24T03:42:03+00:00

In time you will learn to bounce back from that. It has more to do with inner game than anything at all. Once you get better at controlling your state, frame, emotional state, blah blah blah

Title	How to handle rejection ?
Author	MarsianKing
Upvotes	5
Comments	12
Date	October 23, 2019 6:06 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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