How to improve on Every approach

Domingo_salut · 2024-03-19T00:12:42+00:00

Prepare for the real world by doing approaches off campus. Be a little bit more bold everytime.

tobelurone · 2024-03-19T06:11:38+00:00

Hey man I’m not the guy but my friend is master of cold approach on campus I will lay down everything he told me. Average girls u can approach direct compliment, for 9s 10s u must be indirect start normal conversation then try to flirt in a bold way making assumptions about her and stuff. Avoid any compliments. Main thing is to avoid logical conversation be playful. Also it took him about a year to get rlly good at this so u shouldn’t pressure urself to get all the results in just one month. But this guy after a year he got so good he literally start dating actual models, his current model gf he pulled in front of my eyes. I’ve only done a couple approaches cus it rlly takes balls, he’s approached like hundreds and doesn’t gaf idk he’s kinda built different. But if u go through what he did I’m sure u can get to where he’s at. Also from my experience cold approach on campus is 100x easier than street, girls r 100x friendlier and will stop to talk, whereas in street there’s fairly big chance she will ignore and keep walking. U should not waste this opportunity, if u build this skill it translates to so much other things in life. Since u got 1 semester left fuck it y not approach everything. Main thing stopping me is fear of developing a reputation, my friend also had this fear a year ago but he said fuck it and it worked out for him. But it’s rlly about overcoming ur fears it truly builds u as a man. So good luck hope we both make it, my guy has shown me success is abs possible!

ROBYoutube · 2024-03-19T00:15:31+00:00

I just find building and maintaining a social circle too time consuming and cold approach to be way more time efficient.

This is insane to me. Not just because the exact opposite has provided me with infinite relationship opportunities with 90% of the hard work of dating done automatically for me by others, but because hanging out with friends fucking rules and is a big part of the best times of my life.

I don't have any advice for you man other than I hope you find what makes you happy.

IAmAJackedGuy · 2024-03-19T01:03:55+00:00

Getting good at cold approach takes time. First, focus on conquering your approach anxiety and being able to have a normal conversation. The you can focus on implementing game techniques and trying to pull. Being bad at first is normal. You can accelerate quickly with the correct guidance.

If you can get rejected and assess what you did wrong and know not to make that mistake next time it means you have a pretty solid understanding of social skills and intersexual dynamics.

If you want to develop better game, just understand that all game is is good social skills. our opener can either be direct or indirect. Direct meaning your opening line being something that indicates you are interested in her romantically. I prefer being direct, as it is better suited for my personality, and women love boldness, so it works out best for me.

fuzzy_brb · 2024-03-19T01:12:19+00:00

Do you want your own personal pick of the most beautiful women: cold approach

Do you want your friends/social circle to determine for you what your partner will look/be like: social circle

Cold approach is like learning to drive a car. It takes practice and you won’t get good overnight. Also your date/lay rate will be very low (<5%) BUT when you do strike it feels so good…not to mention it feels good telling hot beautiful women you find them attractive

From my experience with hundreds of cold approaches, how long you spend on a cold approach doesn’t affect your outcome. As long as you’re respectful and she finds you attractive enough you’re good. A woman decides within less than 5 seconds if she will go out with you or not.

Chicagoj1563 · 2024-03-19T10:23:25+00:00

There is such an obsession with daygame here. It’s like guys are afraid of night game.

Just do night game. If there are enough people in your town you will have lots of approach opportunities. If your town is too small, then you may have to go elsewhere.

Get good with quantity and quality of approaches. As long as you are pushing your comfort zone there should be things you learn with each approach. Test things out, experiment.

TRTGymBro · 2024-03-19T03:04:32+00:00

Cold approaching hundreds and even thousands of women doesn't guarantee that you will improve anything. You can practice hitting a golf ball ten thousand times, but if you don't know proper posture, swing, timing, etc., you will just end up practicing the wrong things over and over and over.

I think you are focusing on the wrong thing. Once you develop a reputation of a desperate loser who keeps getting shot down by girls, you are toast. You will never get laid on your college again, especially if it is such a small school. You should be focusing on becoming the type of guy college girls want to get down with. And let me tell you something! That's not a guy who doesn't have a social life and is obsessed with bothering random girls on campus and begging them for a phone number.

Title	How to improve on Every approach
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Date	March 18, 2024 11:55 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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