How to make someone comfortable with me ?

aeturnus95 · 2025-11-11T07:27:31+00:00

Might sound cliche, but truth is be comfortable with yourself

norwegiandoggo · 2025-11-11T13:05:00+00:00

Seem like you don't want anything from them.
Develop a positive social reputation so they hear from others that you're a cool guy. So don't just be cool to one girl. Be cool with lots of people she interacts with.
Build your social status by getting good at something lots of people (women) value. Such as being the captain on the football team, becoming a world class stand up comedian or similar. If you have no particular skills; Then become the guy who throws the coolest social events and parties.
Be vulnerable with others. Share some shit you're going through.
Let them hold on to your valuables / watch your valuables - while you go pee or something like that. This shows you trust them. They will see you as more trustworthy too

Viking-Warrior-2025 · 2025-11-11T18:17:10+00:00

Be a warm guy. Don't look for outcomes immediately.

It's really hard to quantify what you are asking because it's innate to some guys so it's hard to explain. For me people have always trusted me. I was a childminder in my teens because people were comfortable with me. That translated to my relationships in that I've never been called creepy.

Interesting_Hat_7576 · 2025-11-11T08:50:08+00:00

Control your anxiety. Be vulnerable. Ask them questions don’t be pushy. Smile. Make eye contact. Gradually get closer to them. Be comfortable with yourself and have positive things going in your life

joggingjunkie · 2025-11-15T13:44:52+00:00

Be a good listener...

Matter_Still · 2025-11-11T10:50:56+00:00

Absolutely. In Dicken’ “ A Christmas Carol”, Scrooge’s nephew thought the holidays were the only time of the year when people seemed to “think of people below them as if they really were fellow-passengers to the grave, and not another race of creatures bound on other journeys.

Empathy. That’s what he was talking about. That is what breaks down walls. Can you wonder about the burdens the Lyft driver is bearing? The secret sorrows of the cute girl who is working the Chanel Counter?

Can you feel compassion for the couple walking their dog, knowing the crushing sadness they will feel when they must put him to sleep?

Can you hear the siren of an ambulance and imagine the pain and fear of whoever it is carrying to the E.R.

No tricks. No gimmicks.

Can you just stop and see we are all in this thing called life together, that we all will grow old, know loss, and confront death?

This need not be morbid or nihilistic. It’s just realizing prince or pauper, master or slave, this being human is not easy, and it’s the same for all of us no matter what airs we put on.

Title	How to make someone comfortable with me ?
Author	Any_Astronomer4353
Upvotes	4
Comments	8
Date	November 11, 2025 7:25 AM UTC (8 months ago)
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