How to meet up with Tinder?

Gi2312 · 2020-01-12T04:37:19+00:00

Quick flirty or interesting message to catch her attention -> get her number -> call and chit chat for 5 min and arrange date-> meet in person. That’s all. Works every time for me.

drevil_ · 2020-01-12T04:37:47+00:00

Hey you’re super cute, we should grab a drink sometime

lifeunbalanced · 2020-01-12T05:54:19+00:00

Heyy what’s up isn’t going to cut it. Just think this girl probably has 100 matches. 30 of them are going to say hey what’s up. How can she reply to you?

Be interesting be flirty, get the number and flirt some more and push for the closer with the date. Also if the convo runs dry through text how do you expect the date to go well? You have to know how to talk and start up conversations and make them interesting.

Workamaholic · 2020-01-12T19:25:57+00:00

We’ll do this with mnemonic devices so it’s easier to remember.

Make her FEEL, be Flirty, Funny, and Frustrating or you’re FUCKED. - Everyone communicates emotionally but women excel in emotional communication. So...

“If what you’re sending/saying doesn’t make her feel something, don’t say it or send it.”

Feelings can range from amused, intrigued, shocked, to aroused.

Usually what you send should have a certain amount of risk associated with it. However don’t overdo this in the texting phase. As other people have mentioned, you’re just texting to ascertain that:

You’re interesting enough that you might be fun to connect with in person.
You’re not a needy psychopath.

I’ll show you a few of mine that have worked.

(Girl doesn’t respond after a day)

“Next time I’m with friends around a campfire and the night gets to be dark with just the right atmosphere, I’ll tell the story of this...

“And she was never heard from again...”

True ghost stories are the scariest I think.”

(Girl reaches out with the standard boring “hey how are you/what’s up bullshit on bumble.)

“Pretty good week so far. This cute girl JUST texted me on bumble...trying to figure out how to compliment her while still playing it cool. Any ideas?”

I could go on... but you get the point. It’s either funny, or a challenge, it’s something. Interesting. You kind of want them to wonder “what will he say next if I text back?”

If you’ve done this, and it shouldn’t take much. Text her once for a few fun lines. YOU end the conversation saying you’re busy but it’s been fun. Wait for about a day.

Pick it up again with a fun or flirty conversation and then get her number. Then call her. (Not immediately) then set up the date.

Ask a few questions but don’t let the phone call last for longer than 8 minutes before you suggest a place to meet up.

Very important rule: Tell don’t ask.

I can’t stress how big of a game changer this is for dating. When you tell don’t ask in setting a date it’s Much more masculine and shows you’re not afraid and you have things under control. So instead of:

Hey when are you free? Want to get together?

It’s:

Hey I like seeing people face to face. Meet me at X at Xtime on X day. For X awesome/mysterious/playful thing.

Big bonus points if you can learn to build mystery and intrigue into your date without compromising her feeling safe. Really this is just marketing.

If you want to get dinner with her. Instead of

Meet me for Ramen

It’s

I know the best Food spot in the city but it’s members only meet me at (drink spot walking distance near the ramen spot) and I’ll decide whether you’re worthy of the club.

You might think “well what if she’s already busy?”

If she’s into you she’ll ask for a different date. The best thing about setting up a date this way is that if she ghosts or doesn’t respond, if you’ve done this right she will wonder what the hell shes missing. And believe me she will.

It’s really important to remember that EVERYONE makes decisions based off of comparisons and women on dating sites are getting offers ALL THE FUCKING TIME especially attractive ones. If you have an attractive friend ask to look through her tinder some day. It will blow your mind. Anything you can do to make your offer intriguing and mysterious will do you well.

Good luck man. Knock em’ dead.

Shadow__Account · 2020-01-12T09:21:14+00:00

Work on some standard routines to throw out there, to spark up the convo. Little value packs, funny statements that can turn into an open conversation, little stories with some memes etc. Hook her, set up a date and keep her warm by a little texting. For example when i start talking on Sunday and we set up a date for Saturday i will have a little more conversation the day after on Monday ... Maybe on Wednesday send a funny meme and have a small conversation, on Friday have another small interaction and on Saturday a quick meme again couple of hours before the date. Of course all depending on how much she is investing back.

Title	How to meet up with Tinder?
Author	beastpunu
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Comments	14
Date	January 12, 2020 4:33 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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