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[–]ImmediateDisaster6 10 points11 points12 points (2 children) | Copy Link
Lol.
Who would do that kind of dinner date anyway? I don't care how hot the girl is, it's drinks or coffee or similar (or some activity that you both want to do because it's fun). If they don't 'want' to do any of that with you, then they don't want you for you, they want your wallet.
And if the girl isn't buying the 2nd round or willing to leave after that then goodbye. It's just a normal thing for the girl to pay without being asked, even if she's hot, because hot girls can be and usually are normal people, not like this broken individual.
This goes back to the idea of 'investment'. You need to make the girl invest, and splashing out money before/without getting laid is the absolute opposite of this concept.
I just think their sub got well trolled though, it's just gone a little bit too far to be real.
At least in Australia I've never encountered this type of girl, even though I'm in the 30's and reasonably well earning category.
[–]NextSpinach 1 point2 points3 points (1 child) | Copy Link
Do you find the woman asking to buy the second shout a good sign or a bad one? I've had it happen on a couple of dates, I'm never quite sure if its her trying to show a reduction of interest so you don't spend money on her, or her trying to show a high interest by contributing.
[–]ImmediateDisaster6 1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
I'm not sure, but it's enough of a sign that they aren't there just to milk you. I'd say positive because they're choosing to stay out, and not make an excuse and go home. They're actively prolonging the date.
One example is the last drinks date I went on, the girl was actively paying after I got the first round, and while I didn't take her home, we were getting very cozy in the booths and had kissed by half way through the date.
In Australia it may be more normal to split though going by a lot of comments in other threads that I've seen where guys are more often expected to pay. Slightly less so for Asian girls, they usually don't lift a finger at bill time, but a decent enough meal here is 1/3 or 1/2 of an hour's wages so in the event I pay for that I don't really care.
There is no reason ever to go straight to high end dining for a new girl though. Even if you have the money to splash around, it doesn't set the frame as anything other than 'provider mode'.
[–]darmyster[S] 4 points5 points6 points (5 children) | Copy Link
I don't even know where to begin. I never knew such a thing as Femcels even existed, but clearly they do.
Am I wrong in assuming they figure really high on the Crazy scale? If so, please advise on how to proceed with shit like this.
P.S. I'm all in for paying on the first date, but I'm at least looking for some effort, the tug of war with the bill at least!
[–]proggi1g 2 points3 points4 points (2 children) | Copy Link
they have also their own sub, lol
https://www.reddit.com/r/Trufemcels/
[–]Fresh_B 0 points1 point2 points (1 child) | Copy Link
OH MY GOD! this is real? I thought this was a joke at first but this is real?... How ... I mean wha..? the FUCK? What is with people these days?
[–]proggi1g 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
yeah.. society is fucked
[–]Siiikeliiike 1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Holy fucking shit... That post has been boiling my fucking blood. The fuck is wrong with these people.
Advocating for fake feminism which is just a ploy from society to put men down even more, so they can take the more masculine role, but meanwhile they leave the bad things men have to do to actual... men... What the fuck.
[–]warbloggled 3 points4 points5 points (4 children) | Copy Link
That is hilarious. I’m left wondering, is this how they feel when they find our posts about ioi’s and dhv’s? It’s fair game I suppose.
[–]darmyster[S] 0 points1 point2 points (1 child) | Copy Link
Yeah that's what I'm wondering. What happens when two alphas cross paths?
[–]warbloggled 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
They’ll have an interesting dance.
[–]ImmediateDisaster6 0 points1 point2 points (1 child) | Copy Link
I think it's just a joke/troll post.
[–]darmyster[S] 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
You'd be surprised if you see the entire sub. They're very serious.
[–]RackPullsAboveTheKne 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
I'm actually stunned after reading the comments I didn't know such girls exist I almost always pay the bill anyways but the girls I'm out with always try at least or make a comment about how we should split it
[–]bournit 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
It's fucking funny knowing that few lines from the great Janka's "Getting Laid in NYC" can demolish in a blink all of this tactics they have
[–]Fresh_B 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Lol I commented on the above mentioned sub reddit. Nothing sexist. Not even anything that can be understood as sexist. But I ended it with..." judging from the comments I'll get banned anyway since I am male?". One moderator commented it while highlighting the statement above and said: correct. Next i got the msg from reddit that I have been banned from that sub.
Good times.
[–]HighValueDayGame1 point [recovered] | Copy Link
All right...
I've dealt with women like that already, and no matter how hard they try to hide it, there will always be leftover signs of entitlement and diva-complex in the way they move, they talk, they laugh, they text.
Each guy should have a solid screening mechanism to filter them out quickly, already during the initial text conversation if you matched on some app.
In fairness, I think in this day and age dinner before sex should always be avoided, and afterwards is only recommended with the girls who you can perceive are good people inside.