How to not be self conscious about rejection?

MasterTeacher123 · 2022-06-28T11:31:05+00:00

You talk to multiple girls and don’t focus on one

CompetitionFair7686 · 2022-06-28T12:35:20+00:00

Dude, if you wanna make out with a girl don’t tell her your feelings, that’s not even what any of those 30 guys did.

Those guys just hit on her, flirted sexually with her, and escalated things physically while they were alone together.

They didn’t say “oh i really like you” or “i love you” or “can we be more than friends” They did not confess how they’re felt, because they just wanted to make out and have fun with her possibly hookup.

You don’t confess feelings, if you wanna have casual sex with a girl or make out with her.

GordonGecko69 · 2022-06-28T14:28:02+00:00

Get rejected more.

themostgianthorse · 2022-06-28T15:19:49+00:00

You really need to read No More Mr. Nice Guy by Robert Glover.

You have a covert contract with this girl.

You covert contract is: “Other guys fooled around with her. If I, a guy who is better than some of them, express my interest to her then she will be receptive to me.”

But it gets worse.

When we engage in these covert contracts and do not get what we want, we tend to see ourselves as less than those who were accepted. This lowers our confidence and/or makes us bitter and resentful. Until we see this and take action to correct it, we will remain in a downward spiral.

The solution for this is to:

Establish man to woman relationship early on
Unapologetically express your intention
Shoot your shot
Accept the results while not basing your worth/happiness, etc. on the outcome
Understand that there are 4 billion women in the world. Abundance always exists. You just have to believe it. The best way to believe it is to not focus on anyone woman at a time and experience it.

Pop_Zestyclose · 2022-06-28T12:22:40+00:00

Lose the entitlement.

Just cause she’s racked up a number and you consider them average and superior to them doesn’t justify that she’s supposed to add you to the list.

You thought it was easy and over estimated your quality as a person and got reality checked that’s why you feel the way you feel.

Keep nibbling on the humble pie some more and learn the lesson.

shxbxx · 2022-06-28T16:12:17+00:00

How to adapt to a certain environment? Expose for a while

Sup3rHD · 2022-06-28T20:02:52+00:00

Ahahhahahahaah u want a girl that made out with 30 guys?

Pay an escort, its the same thing 😂

Ambitious-Ice2357 · 2022-06-29T01:08:21+00:00

Never focus on one hole.

Title	How to not be self conscious about rejection?
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Date	June 28, 2022 10:57 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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