Hey everyone. I've had some success with woman in the past (I've had a few long term girlfriends and some hookups). But I notice that I've always had a bad habit of coming off thirsty or desperate, especially when I really like a girl. I don't purposefully try to. It kind of just happens.

I'm not triple texting girls, or calling them non stop, or being whipped or friend zoning myself. It's more when I'm first starting to get to know the girl, my behavior will come off thirsty and will push the girl away. I've screwed up two potential opportunities/awesome girls these past few months because of this and for the new year I want to get this handled.

It seems like it's a mental block or maybe anxious/nervous behavior when I'm around them. Idk, that's just my guess and what I notice.

Thanks for the help!