How to practice game in a small town?

IFlyAircrafts · 2014-05-27T15:06:01+00:00

I had the same problem, I landed a really good job in a town of 1000 people. And I hate to tell you this but it's pretty much impossible to game in a small town. In my town there was literally 3 single girls that were decent looking. So it's pretty frustrating when your on seddit and constantly hearing things like "get rejected, no problem go find another one" in a small town it's more like "get rejected, no problem just wait another 6 months for a girl to become single or move"

There was a town about 2 hours away that had 100,000 people, so I would often drive up there on the weekends. I loved/hated doing this. It was great cause I could practice approaching on many girls, got to go out to an actual club, and met a ton of cool people. But this created a huge problem, whenever I would snag a number, in order for us to meetup again it would require me to drive 2 hours. This created huge investment and logistical problems.

It was a hard decision but I decided to take a paycut, AND a huge rent increase and move to the town I was visiting on the weekends. It immediately made my life a whole lot better!! I realized making a ton of money is not a good reason to keep yourself in a shitty environment. I have been living here for over two years now and the only decision I regret is not moving to a bigger city. Even though a 100k population is exponentially better than my 1k, I still feel like I run into a lot of the same people.

You just gotta move! That's pretty much the only solution

__JeRM · 2014-05-27T13:08:12+00:00

How have the guys who come from small towns solved this problem?

Moved to a different town.

DaygameCoach · 2014-05-27T17:45:33+00:00

Drive to other towns and cities to game.

z10z · 2014-05-28T03:20:37+00:00

If your cousins are hot, go for it!

Focus on the process.. not the outcome. You can still develop skills, talk to lots of women and engage them even if you aren't looking to 'elevate'.

JoshStraw · 2014-05-28T08:07:21+00:00

Game is not all about picking up. Sure, that's the final outcome, but actual game is about life and connecting with people.

If you look at what naturals teach, they teach you to really be yourself. Don't let you ego get in the way and make you say stupid things, let yourself connect with people.

So in answer to your question, you can practice game everyday. Set yourself a series of goals in the ways you want to be seen (I recommend read the 7 habits of highly effective people), then achieve them. Things like making people smile, or pushing yourself to be silly, or brave.

At the end of the day, girls are attracted to confidence. Confidence is not being worried about being judged.

I was coached by Sasha Daygame, and the stuff he taught me barely involved girls to begin with. Instead it was about breaking down my own barriers until I was comfortable with doing anything I wanted. Once I had conquered that, girls were easy.

Good luck mate.

Josh

JF803 · 2014-05-28T15:43:22+00:00

Day game. I've been in a similar town the past year and do better picking up girls from the gym than the bars

Title	How to practice game in a small town?
Author	bigbjarne
Upvotes	12
Comments	12
Date	May 27, 2014 11:10 AM UTC (12 years ago)
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