Hi, I am 21m. Trying to figure out how to have sex with a lot of girls. I get lots of attention from women based on my physical attractiveness and even have been in a few relationships. Most girls I’ve had sex with was strictly in relationships basically from them approaching me first.

Went on a lot of dates but most of the time I think the girls don’t like my personality cause I usually end up saying the wrong thing and get ghosted which starts to make me not really like my personality either cause most people don’t like it. Or the girls will typically see me in a boyfriend type of way which I’ll usually not be interested in cause I wanna have sex before getting into a relationship.

It makes me think my personality is horrible and discourages me from approaching a lot of girls honestly and dating usually makes me feel like shit.

It’s not a confidence issue either cause I am very calm around girls or just social interactions in general and very high status in my career so I’m always feeling confident internally about my worth.

But it makes me just not like my dating life that much in general cause nothing ever works out and I feel like I’m always walking on egg shells trying to figure out the right thing to say to these girls.

And a lot of posts on here make me feel like I have to entertain women, like I can never just have a normal conversation with girls cause apparently small talk and getting to know someone is “boring”. Maybe I should try and be someone completely different.

I wanna be the man who can fuck so many girls easily but it seems so hard and unnatural to be the dude women wanna have sex with.