How to sleep with them.

Broad-Cranberry-9050 · 2025-12-23T19:51:54+00:00

What are you doing in these dates?

In my experience when a date is going boring it usally means that either the girl doesnt find you interesting like you two just dont vibe and that's ok.

Or you arent doing anything to make sure she knows you are interested in her. You aren't trying to start any type of physical contact even if it's small. You arent trying to be flirty, etc. You arejust talking like you are 2 buds.

I had this mistake, i wanted to be respectful and show her how i was an upclass citizen but really my intentions were also that i wanted some but id idnt show it. Got friendzoned a lot. Because she probably didnt think i was that into her.

The initial spark can go away very easily, just cause you got a first date doesnt mean that spark will stay on forever. You gotta work to keep that spark going.

Budget-Kick822 · 2025-12-23T19:42:45+00:00

Flirt and tease. Lookup flirting guide. Lookup physical escalation guide

tattooedpanhead · 2025-12-23T22:13:43+00:00

If you're bord chance's are, so is she. Don't let the date go on so long. Cute it short before things get boring. Before you run out of things to talk about. Always value your time. If things start to slow down to early change venues. Go somewhere else. Make a list of places not to far apart. That you can take her on the fly. So your never stuck to one place. This will make it more interesting for her.

Also you should be escalating from the start. Being suggestive in a joking way so you have plausible deniability. But if she or anyone calls you out on something you said. Ignore them and keep going, plow right through the objections.

Because you don't give a damn. You're not there to be the nice guy. And you won't get laid being the nice guy ether.

Use any and all excuse to touch her and lead her. Don't wate When you meet take her by the hand and walk her to the date location like she is a child you need to keep track of. When you open a door for her. Put your hand at the small of her back and lead her inside. Then keep it there as you go to the table/seat. When you open the car door put your hand on the top of her head so she doesn't bump it on the top of the door way.

Give her a nickname that's a little bit objectionable. Like my little hart breaker or my favorite headache.

Always look for way's to take control. For example order for her. Never be indecisive as it makes you look like you lack confidence. If you're nervous say so. A little venerability goes a long way.

Also introduce her as a friend untill she shows you she deserves to be the girl friend. If she trys to say you're her boyfriend correct her.

Always watch her reactions to everything you do. So you can make adjustments as necessary. Most of all remember you don't give a damn.

Halo_Sports · 2025-12-23T20:58:03+00:00

When it’s a date, your job is to escalate to kissing first. If not touch her appropriately to get comfortable. Kissing leads to sex IMO the quicker you get to touching lips the closer you are to sex

NotUsedUsernameYet · 2025-12-24T05:39:27+00:00

“Sees friend in you” means she wasn’t physically attracted to you.

Person subconsciously decides if they are attracted to you or not within minutes if not seconds of seeing you. If she is attracted to you there is almost nothing you can do to break that attraction. If she is not attracted to you there is absolutely nothing you can do to create that attraction.

becomesharp · 2025-12-25T22:26:18+00:00

The problem isnt lack of sexuality (do NOT think you can fix this by talking about sex), it's lack of attraction and lack of sexual tension. If she isnt laughing a LOT on the date, you dont have sufficient attraction and its likely not going anywhere. Focus on that first.

Don't put the cart before the horse.

Title	How to sleep with them.
Author	Pale_Cap7777
Upvotes	4
Comments	9
Date	December 23, 2025 7:16 PM UTC (7 months ago)
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