How to tell the difference between approach me eye contact and just random eye contact

Masterofwalls · 2020-11-10T22:54:35+00:00

Only one way to find out.

llgbauer · 2020-11-10T23:47:04+00:00

Maybe not approach but just say "hi how ya doing" and then go from there?

STD_Tyler · 2020-11-11T01:07:34+00:00

That's why girls avoid eye contact with ugly guys haha...

putcoolusernamehere · 2020-11-11T03:34:45+00:00

Personally, I never look for 'signs' that they want me to approach. I just go for it. I think a lot of these signs are figments of our imaginations, though I will admit occasionally there are clear IOI's.

MrQualtrough · 2020-11-11T09:13:18+00:00

Idgaf about that I just talk. But it's easy to tell, you can even tell the way they start to dance a little stiff where they're not really focusing on dancing enough but are feeling aware of you and self conscious instead. You can see all these tiny things so clear.

Haha.

throwaway26374959 · 2020-11-11T09:45:30+00:00

Idk if there's a difference or not but I think it's good question considering now you can only see people's eyes.

Asian_Alpha · 2020-11-11T16:35:49+00:00

" no special type of facial expressing "

-> there's your answer

if a girl is showing interest with eye contact, there will be something, most likely curiosity.

however that doesn't mean she DOESNT like you. just that she likely feels neutral about you atm since she doesnt know you at all

all that said, none of that really matters anyways. just go talk to her if u want. beware though... you WILL be shitting where you eat. I started approaching girls at my gym and it basically screws up your gym experience since sometimes you just wanna work out but now have to consider game there since ull come across them at any given time, even when u dont want to see them

ennarid · 2020-11-12T16:54:12+00:00

As a girl - when I do "approach me" eye contact, I smile. Sometimes its combined with other small gesture - fixing my hair or even biting my lip slowly. I also try to look somehow sexy or take the open stance to send a hint that its A okay to come talk to me. If I see the other party staring at me, I can look at them again, with some welcoming gesture, such as slightly pointing a sit next to me.

LakersAreTerrible25 · 2020-11-11T02:05:42+00:00

Stop over thinking. If you wanna approach, then approach and have a basic quick introduction before suggesting to go for a drink/coffee. What you say doesn't matter, its how attractive you are to her and talking for longer periods will only lower any attraction that's there

RedEyeBlackEye1 · 2020-11-12T22:52:02+00:00

1) If her eyes go wide when she sees you

2) if there is prolonged eye contact and a smile

3) if she makes brief eye contact than looks straight down(bonus if she smiles too)

Either of those 3 things and you got a foot in the door...approach and don't fuck it up.

Good luck

squatch1601 · 2020-11-11T13:46:43+00:00

Repeated eye contact, they freeze and hold their breath for a moment when you make eye contact, they blush and immediately look away, they go out of their way to avoid it and get attention while still lingering around you, they look at you when you are not looking.

There is no saying, each girl has a different personality and acts differently. I would say just approach and find out. After a few approaches you will develop a good instinct. Once you have that experience that instinct will help pick out the ones most interested from before you even speak.

luguxd · 2020-11-11T15:57:01+00:00

Dont shit where you eat.

ladyofculture2211 · 2020-11-11T15:44:45+00:00

Eye contact is basically nothing..it's mostly random.. smiles and blushes are everything.. a girl can't stop smiling to a guy she likes.. or she will try hard to hide it..

2020-11-11T19:14:51+00:00

If she’s holding eye contact for longer than a second or two, approach

croweeffects · 2020-11-11T19:27:24+00:00

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Title	How to tell the difference between approach me eye contact and just random eye contact
Author	chosenone1_
Upvotes	21
Comments	40
Date	November 10, 2020 10:45 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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