How to turn tables in seduction

worldwidenoah · 2019-09-02T14:44:56+00:00

Become a celebrity

fbaseball21 · 2019-09-02T14:35:03+00:00

You have to be worth someone going after. Be fit, eat healthy, make money, dress well, good social life, etc.

Handsome_Claptrap · 2019-09-02T15:37:24+00:00

She will be making problems and excuses

You can do it too. Even if you aren't, act like you are very busy and you are doing her a favour by finding the time to see her.

to keep me as one of a dozen of her backup options.

Act like you also have backup options. This is trickier, you need to find a balance between making her feel special and acting like she is just one of the many options you have, you need to find things to say and do that let her with the doubt.

Doubt is what matters. If she is 100% sure you are into her, she'll lose interest because as you said, she can just keep you as a backup option. If you look 0% into her, she'll think "what am i doing here?" or - if she's insecure - "i knew it, i fucked up, he doesn't like me".

If you don't let her understand how much you are into her, confidents girls will think "i'm a great girl, why isn't he into me?" and try to make sure you are into them, insecure girls instead will think "i fear he isn't into me, i gotta do better" and then they try to make sure you aren't put off by them. Either way, they'll try to "sell" themselves more to them and you'll have your table turned.

If you look 100% into her, for her it's like playing a super easy game: it's not fun, there is no thrill. If you look 0% into her, it's instead like playing an unbeatable game, she'll just give up. Just like some people like playing games on Beginner and some people like Dark Souls, some girls love easy games (when you are more into them than not), while some like hard games (when you are more not than into). While you figure out, be mysterious and unpredictable.

crawleycrepe · 2019-09-02T14:47:40+00:00

It's just the way it is, unless you're famous or banging ugly girls way beneath your looks level

Women choose. A pretty girl is getting hit up on apps and DM's like 50 times per day. Even a fairly ugly girl could 'outslay' a very handsome dude.

ilikepie145 · 2019-09-02T14:27:18+00:00

You don’t

Optymistyk · 2019-09-02T16:10:04+00:00

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TaeKwonPiccolo · 2019-09-02T17:35:35+00:00

MONEY... LOTS AND LOTS OF MONEY

UWantThisName36 · 2019-09-03T02:09:50+00:00

I would recommend toddv he talks alit about this

Title	How to turn tables in seduction
Author	Optymistyk
Upvotes	4
Comments	16
Date	September 2, 2019 2:25 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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