How would I even approach someone

FriendlyWrenChilling · 2025-04-22T05:21:22+00:00

Follow my approaching post and practice the principles inside. That will keep you afloat for the first 15 minutes of the interaction.

NoargFrameston · 2025-04-22T05:45:37+00:00

Here's my iterative step-by-step process to approaching:

start going out to places you can approach, no need to actually do it. You can do that as much as you want, weeks even.
observe other guys approaching, realize its happening everywhere at all times. your brain will start realizing this is actually normal and expected!
train your mind to select an approach target quickly wherever you go.
once you start selecting targets without thinking, look at her for a moment. Why did you select her specifically? visualize approaching her and just telling her the genuine reason, do this everywhere you go.

Lastly and most importantly, stop watching porn and masturbating if that's something you do. I know this is strange, but you need to recruit those hormones to push you forward and to have a good reserve of sexual energy when you approach. This will actually lower the chances of rejection and help you recover from it quicker when it happens.

I'm sure you can figure out the next steps when the time comes ;)

Ciabbata · 2025-04-22T22:02:35+00:00

It's totally normal to feel unsure about approaching someone! Start with a warm smile and a simple "Hi." A genuine compliment or observation about the surroundings can break the ice. Remember, confidence grows with practice. Hope that helps!

topher_atx · 2025-04-24T17:59:03+00:00

Oh this is easy: Find excuses to talk to strangers. Be chatty Ask a question relevant to the setting, environment, or situation. Make an observation about the current setting. Ask a random question. Give a compliment.

Example: There was a babe dancing next to me last night who was wearing cool glasses. I asked her where she got her glasses. She looked back at me with complete disgust. Then I think she realized she was being a c***, and politely told me where she got them 😂.

Deadbeat_Zaddy · 2025-04-22T04:32:41+00:00

Situational opener.. make an observation about her or ask a question.

Title	How would I even approach someone
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Date	April 22, 2025 4:24 AM UTC (1 year ago)
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