After some introspection, I(21m) have figured that the main reason that I haven't managed to go any further with a woman other than just talking is because I don't know how to flirt. I don't know how to react to it either. When someone is flirting with me, I can barely recognise it and I feel uncomfortable and paralyzed. I can't do this. Whenever I try to flirt with someone its usually forced and makes the other person uncomfortable.

To be honest I'm not quite sure what flirt is actually.

People usually tell me that I have to be playful and tease the woman, but not only beeing playful has not taken me far, but also Im loosing interest in that kind of interaction quite fast.

I study physics and im interested in philosophy and music as well. I like sharing my thoughts with other people, and doing so has spawned some really beautiful discussions but, obviously, sexual attraction can't be built by discussing super massive black holes.