I do exceedingly well at social circle game but badly in clubs

TofuTofu · 2012-04-20T15:03:27+00:00

Props for wanting to be better at this stuff, brother.

First off, you're in high school. I'm glad you've found social circle game to be easy because it will never get easier in your entire life than in high school. As you go to college, just be that fun, awesome, leader of men who befriends all the hot chicks and cool dudes early in the semester. The start of freshman year is a free-for-all and you have a chance to establish yourself as legendary. Don't squander that.

As for clubs... You're still in high school, man. Just give it time. Of course I do recommend everyone learn how to cold approach, but it sounds like you'd be a hell of a lot more comfortable with social proof/preselection when in da club. Why not invite a bunch of those hot chicks and cool dudes to come out with you? Check the sidebar guide on Entourage Game if you want to take it to the next level. It's like combining social circle game with club game. It makes it almost too easy.

Delightful_White · 2012-04-20T15:59:54+00:00

That's because club game is a different beast. Girls tend to have their guard up more in clubs because it's a more sexual environment. They're dressed up real nice and look hot, so many guys (and chumps) will hit on them and their friends all night. Can't really say I blame them...

Club game is much more physical and body language oriented. Most chumps get right in a girls face and scream questions like "WHAT'S YOUR NAME?" and "WHERE ARE YOU FROM?" and try to talk over the music. Instead, you need to be more physical and display loose, open, and confident body language and strong eye contact. Take action and approach confidently, grab girls by the hand and initiate a dance with them. Dance with many girls.

The alpha male picks whichever fruit he wants. If he finds a bad apple, he tosses it away and goes for another one.

I've brought girls home with me from clubs and have barely said a word at all. It's very physical. Act first and ask questions later.

woeisyou · 2012-04-20T17:00:12+00:00

Clubs are something you have to get used to. They're meant to be overstimulating. I used to HATE clubs like crazy and was almost scared to go in them. It's like a foreign country where I didn't really know the rules and there was just so much going on.

As you get used to them and loosen up, it gets better. I still don't really like them a lot, because (like you said), they often are very appearance oriented and I don't have the greatest looks going for me. But i'm at least comfortable in the club environment, which is important to me, because often i'll get invited to a club by groups of girls.

donggg · 2012-04-20T23:04:56+00:00

Poorly* Lex Luthor does things badly.

UnapologeticalyAlive · 2012-04-20T18:56:11+00:00

When the music's too loud to talk in a normal tone of voice and still be heard, you have to rely exclusively on body language. This has its ups and downs because you can't use any witty lines or anything, but the upside is that you don't have to think of much to say. Just relax and feel the music.

xpictoc114 · 2012-04-20T19:23:05+00:00

I'm the same way, I'm 6'4 and I usually don't understand anything a girl says unless I lean in.

I'm decent at social circle game and day game, so what I do is invite people to the club. Then just banter and kino, usually ends up with grinding and other fun stuff. I'll have to look into real club game.

P3psi · 2012-04-21T04:14:01+00:00

Social circles are the little leagues compared to that of the outside our little safe zone weve set up. In a social circle, you have already established social proof and have a demeanor to you that others already know about. Also, theres less AA to happen, cause, well... you already know them. All you really have to do from is kino and escalate. I was a overly interverted AFC chump. Today, I have trained to become a leader and a validated sexual candidate. For example, I girl I used to know back then, that had no intentions to ever be with me came back to town. I use some inner social circle game by slightly escalating and touching her hand to start kino. Long story short, I ended up making out with her that night, and a week late bedded her. The huge difference in both, is AA and social proof for outside the social circle. Best of luck to ya.

Title	I do exceedingly well at social circle game but badly in clubs
Author	donggg
Upvotes	5
Comments	18
Date	April 20, 2012 2:38 PM UTC (14 years ago)
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