I feel so worthless

Raizzz1 · 2019-07-12T21:58:03+00:00

I had a period in my life where I thought I was going to die a virgin. But as soon as I became ok with the idea that there’s no shame in not getting sex, I ironically became more attractive since I had a calmer presence. Despite what society tells you, therre’s waay more to life than getting laid and you’re not a loser if you can’t. Also, remember, that women want guys that want them, not need them.

xoxuv · 2019-07-13T00:01:13+00:00

NO women I mean NO women has ever showed any sort of indicator of interest in me

And no women will.

Women don't do that. You have to seduce.

The only kind of woman that give IO are: early teens, because they are inexperienced, women who had an alpha looking like you, and women who had been seduced by accident by something you did, but not really by who you are.

Anyways, even if a woman has interest, you have to seduce her exactly the same as one woman which hadn't shown interest.

You will waste your entire life by waiting for a woman that "shows interest in you". Even if you, by accident, find one, you will not be able to recognize it because of your lack of experience, and you will not be able to take advantage of the opportunity, due to your lack of experience. Even if she throws herself in your arms, you will ruin it due to your lack of experience.

Your attitude comes from the laziness and the cowardice of not daring to approach women and seducing them. You want a woman to do the work, and that is not a woman's role. Women are resources, for which you compete with other man. If you don't want to compete, there are plenty of other man willing to take her.

There is no woman assigned to you, or to any other man. There is no soulmate. There is absolutely no reason to believe that you will get one woman if you do not make the effort of deserving her. Even if you get one woman, your lack of understanding, and lack of experience, will cause her to stop being interested in you.

There is only one way to get woman: approaching them, seducing them, crashing and burning 100 times.

Woman do not fall in love because you are pretty. They fall in love because you make them feel it, and to be able to do that, you need a lot of experience, which you will never get by sitting there waiting for a woman "showing interest".

gonzo00828 · 2019-07-13T01:49:54+00:00

I promise I'm not trolling and just speaking one man to another when I say your post reads alot like bitching and complaining about what's wrong and not much on what you've done to fix it.

Put more attention to yourself and weaknesses than why aren't girls attracted to you.Put that last on your list of worries. instead focus on your weaknessness and one by one make them strengths. " If you build it they [girls] will come." Trust me!

Jesus, your 20. It can't be that bad. My current best friend was in Marines with me and came back frpom deployment from Iraq at your age with no legs, one arm and most importantly NO DICK. Cant get any more useless than not having a DICK. Not to mention his wife left with the kids and sold his all his shit including the house while we were gone. He was dickless, broke, kid-less and homeless but still alive and soon to be married again. Life is full shitty things and situations. It's fkn tough. Ask any retired man. It's a tough road for 98% of us on Earth. So get a helmet, strap it on tight, suck it the fuck up and deal with it head first.

rushdbeisisjeiwksj · 2019-07-12T21:25:29+00:00

Its just your attitude and lack of confidence

elgodo7 · 2019-07-12T22:55:44+00:00

go gym, learn fashion, get better haircut, work on yourself. OR GIVE UP AND BE ALONE FOREVER. There is so many things you can change, you can get status, a good job, money etc you can learn game. Focus on what is in your control.

boooboookttyfck · 2019-07-13T00:32:03+00:00

As a woman, you're 100% correct. At this moment in time you are undatable. You have a pessimistic, victim, woe is me attitude. Not only do women not find that attractive, no one does.

So change it. You want something bad enough then be willing to put in the work to achieve it, be willing to put in the work to be the kind of person someone wants to be with. And it all starts with your mindset. You're young. You're alive. Make your life what you want it to be.

Dating someone, hell even marrying someone doesn't guarantee a happy forever. Get some grit in you boy.

Or by all means it's probably easier to just give up and wallow. You can do it, and you can have it. Just make the decision to go get it.

Digitalidentity · 2019-07-13T01:09:28+00:00

Women don't define you

YOU define YOU.

Your definition of you has not changed, but you can change it in an instant. The tides can turn.

So start to change it, find an attribute you can improve and improve it, rinse and repeat.

That positive change in you, that no-excuses "I'm going to love me" is what will begin to draw women TO YOU. Energy, magic, the laws of attraction, call it what you will. It works, and it all begins by loving yourself first mate, the women will follow.

rewinder909 · 2019-07-13T02:21:47+00:00

First of all looks don't matter. Just have good hygiene and smell good. Second being needy is unactractive. I bet you are good at something, videos games, painting, piano... Anything Next time you talk to a girl talk about what you want and don't give a shit if she likes it or not, do what you want. You will the see the outcome changing. If you got rejected 100times you are doing something wrong, record yourself approaching, go out with someone get feedback. And if your feeling bad with mental problems, talk to a close friend or your family, it's always good to open yourself and they will give you the love you need.

I hope this helps you my friend. Take care.

pukima_sial · 2019-07-13T03:39:38+00:00

Work on yourself first bro

Lamarth2k15 · 2019-07-13T12:28:33+00:00

Hey Op if you need someone to talk to I am here for you. Just send me a message and I will gladly talk to you. Your life is way too valuable and sex is not everything just a part of life. It sounds like you need help finding yourself and identity. Please reach out to me....

Docroketman · 2019-07-12T21:34:39+00:00

Let's say you're right and girls aren't what you're good at. Go do something else! It's a curse to always think about reproduction, caused by society itself. Enjoy your human experience some other way.

RuleBreakerrz · 2019-07-12T21:49:43+00:00

You have to be in the right mindset man. And you need to be surrounded by guys that are out in the field (dating) as well. Checkout /r/Alpha_Male_Dating to get you in the right mindset of confidence. You can't get the women you want, if you're in the wrong mindset. Trust Me

Title	I feel so worthless
Author	Throwawayaccount0379
Upvotes	7
Comments	17
Date	July 12, 2019 9:14 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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