I need some DM/Conversation advice.

TyDollaz_ · 2022-07-21T17:54:10+00:00

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CompetitionFair7686 · 2022-07-21T14:46:28+00:00

It doesn’t work that way.

Doing that only makes you her text buddy/penpal.

You’d pretty much text yourself into the friendzone as you steadily kill all the mystery, and all the excitement by becoming her routine guy she texts when she is bored.

Texting is not a medium to keep a girl interested, it is a medium to set up dates. Being on her mind by texting her doesn’t keep her sexual interest high, it just makes you her friend.

If you don’t know when you can meet her again, then it’s better to focus your attention on other girls, and just let this one know you still exist once in a while, like twice per month for example.

So, no… don’t waste your time trying to make a list of topics to discuss because it’s counterproductive.

Also, if there is one thing girls hate more than anything is questions, so it’s not even how you should be having conversations anyways with them let alone over texts.

bcool_returns · 2022-07-21T14:58:42+00:00

Add her on IG and stay mildly in touch. Anything more is unsustainable and you'll likely give the game away -- especially if it escalates to something like sexting (without a quick irl payoff). I meet up with women weeks and months after our initial interaction. You're thinking about it the wrong way, too. Sure, there's you staying on her radar. But there's also her staying on yours. If your social media profile is engaging and good quality, interested women can and will stay in touch. Then, when you're maybe 1-2 weeks away from coming back to town, you start ramping up conversation again and nailing down a date when you're back.

Liberaler · 2022-07-21T14:42:21+00:00

90 % of the variables, who will decide whether she will be still interested then, are not within your control. Once you realize that, you will stop forcing your desired outcome so much. Focus on other people/things in the mean time.
Texting tends to lead to misunderstandings and does hardly build up attraction. So less is more.
A weekly phone call would be much more intimate. You will hear her voice and can build up genuine rapport.

couldnotd3cide · 2022-07-21T18:22:41+00:00

1.5 hours if you both plan a halfway point weekend. You can go on a few dates in a new area and plow her into next year for a few nights.

grindforthegold · 2022-07-21T19:25:29+00:00

i would say man get her on the phone set up a date halfway through you guys or drive over and try to at least kiss her at some point in the night otherwise she’ll lose interest

no pressure though im talking to this girl i met online and we set up a date like two weeks later and we’re still chatting and she obviously really likes me just make sure you try to move things forward

Title	I need some DM/Conversation advice.
Author	TyDollaz_
Upvotes	2
Comments	11
Date	July 21, 2022 2:19 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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