I need some help…

2022-03-25T22:21:36+00:00

You don't know whats behind the next door. Do Babies tell themselves when they learn walking "Meh, maybe this isn't for me". Maybe you should take a few steps back and reevaluate your intentions with women. I only date/sleep with women that I like/share common interests. If you only want to sleep with as many women as possible, they will sense your desperation. Don't throw yourself in the victimhood of things. Everybody gets rejected. Lose with grace.

max_insa · 2022-03-26T19:53:14+00:00

Yo OP here's the complete answer you need:

work on money, gym and social status at all times (it takes years to build so start yesterday)
stop seeing your worth through the amount of people who like you
start seeing your worth through the amount of successes you make happen. Not enough success right now? Then take more action.

To be truly honest with you, you're acting like a baby who is discovering how the world works and who isn't happy about it.

Okay, you're mad. But you'd better stop being mad real soon because it's not going to change anything.

There's a sure 100% proven times and times again way to be successful with dating (LMS + social skills + spirituality). People with a worse situation than you did it before, are doing it right now, and will do it again in the future.

So quit whining and start grinding because that's the best thing you can do for you. The more you wait before accepting reality, the more years of your life you waste.

SIR_DANIEL_I · 2022-03-25T22:24:14+00:00

I don’t know if you’d consider this help, but here is my two cents about it.

1) let go of the whole being bummed about rejection. The worst thing that can happen, is a Woman saying No. You if you accept that, you can move on, just keep on trying. Eventually you’ll get a yes.

2) Could be your approach. Maybe trying too hard or not trying hard enough. Try different things, mix it up.

3) Maybe find something you really enjoy doing, and then try to meet someone who is also into that same thing. Easier to bond with someone over mutual interests.

Hope this helps.

CompetitionFair7686 · 2022-03-25T22:31:28+00:00

It’s not about your looks, or wealth even with money you would still have problems unless you are directly paying hookers…

The problem is you are talking with girls in such a way that just ain’t fun doesn’t make them genuinely laugh with you and can’t make them feel anything.

No_Hat4416 · 2022-03-26T01:19:31+00:00

Im turning 20 this year. In my opinion you should have balance between both. Focus on yourself, level up mentally and physically. Strengthen your mind, harden it. Keep the shit up man. You got this. We got this. I been rejected most of the time too, we just got to keep going and don’t let those feelings destroy us. I’m starting to feel so much better these days, and I’ve got so much more to learn. Keep striving forward man.

franikolai · 2022-03-26T13:42:03+00:00

Go to college. Pay to live there. That will provide the social experience you need

catfish_milk · 2022-03-25T22:23:36+00:00

20’s are for building your career/status. Women should be like last on your list. Purpose first, women will follow after.

ResponsibilityKey427 · 2022-03-25T22:51:20+00:00

Dating ain’t a numbers game bruh.

You already know what to do.

No wealth nor status? I’m going to assume lack of friends and social circle too.

Well that’s not fun for girls.

So I suggest you work on that.

generaldream · 2022-03-28T05:27:22+00:00

Just remember it takes her a face full of makeup to feel comfortable to leave the house so don’t let the rejection hurt you to much

Title	I need some help…
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Date	March 25, 2022 10:11 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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