I often get dates from Tinder but these dates never lead anywhere. Desperate to know what I'm doing wrong.

BBattes · 2022-04-16T07:49:29+00:00

Yeah when you repeatably shove your hand between her legs she might tend towards getting out of there. Here is all you need to remember - 1. Set a date and get off the phone 2. At the date just concentrate on having fun and when the time is right kiss her 3. Women are unlikely to have sex on the first date so don’t come on too strong. See where it goes but don’t t put out an expectation that you are going to have sex 4. After the date wait 5-6 days to contact her again. This gives her the space to reach out to you (a sign that she is really interested) 5. If she doesn’t reach out then contact her and ask her out on another date. Then get off the phone. There is no need to contact her again. The phone is only for setting dates 6. Repeat until she starts reaching out to you. When she does, use her initiating contact to set up the next date with her

Keep dating fun lighthearted and keep off the phone(only use for setting dates)

aznkor · 2022-04-16T08:14:06+00:00

What's with the putting-your-hand-between-her-legs move? I think you're missing some steps between teasing/push-pull and putting your hand near their vag. Like, I dunno, being direct and communicating interest.

CocoBabeNYC · 2022-04-16T11:24:06+00:00

You are chasing sex which means you make sex with them the prize. Women feel that instinctually and feel cheapened by it. Instead of going in wjth preconceived notions of getting sex, focus only on getting to know them. Focus on getting to know everything about them. Connect. That's why women constantly yap with each other. They are not necessarily conveying logical information used for accomplishing a task, like men do. They simply connect. At the end of the date, lean in an kiss them. Then say you are getting out of there and say "you coming?" And leave it at that. Then no funny business until you are home.

MaltaPepe · 2022-04-16T07:40:29+00:00

country? age? some countries have impossible women like Germany

NickFromNL · 2022-04-16T09:34:00+00:00

I think you mentioned your own problem: stop it with the hand between the legs thing.

Seriously, what woman wants a hand between their legs at a first date. You’re creeping them out making them feel uncomfortable.

Have fun at the first date, see how it goes. You don’t even need to kiss someone at the first date. I never do because it makes me feel awkward. Second date is always better.

Just get your foot of the throttle a little bit.

Therocksays2020 · 2022-04-16T13:13:18+00:00

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Canadian-Seductioner · 2022-04-16T14:50:56+00:00

but when I try putting my hand between her legs, she'll always pull away. After repeating these steps for another once or twice and getting the same response

I'm surprised that you haven't already figured out that this is the cause of all your problems. Why are you trying to finger this girl at the bar? Lol save it for when you bring her home.

Title	I often get dates from Tinder but these dates never lead anywhere. Desperate to know what I'm doing wrong.
Author	Believeinyourflyness
Upvotes	0
Comments	17
Date	April 16, 2022 7:37 AM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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