Everytime I meet another woman I cannot seem to get past the normal getting to know each other questions. (Where you from, where you study/work..) Very rarely do I feel like a personal connection has been made where I would keep texting/talking to her. I feel like I am missing something crucial because I get sick of small talk during the night. I have no problem approaching but it gets tiring when the same questions are being thrown around. How do I build more meaningful connections in the first conversation so that I leave her wanting MORE??