If you could give a noob 3 tips for getting into game...

ThrowawayPUA · 2013-05-25T04:10:46+00:00

Have fun.
Approach women.
Escalate.

windowtothesoul · 2013-05-25T06:09:37+00:00

Don't internalize rejection and don't let it ruin your night.
You can't win if you don't play the game - get out there.
Learn what works for you.

RedSunBlue · 2013-05-25T15:54:42+00:00

Lift weights and eat well
Up your fashion game
Focus on the process, not the product.

v8skittles · 2013-05-25T22:48:58+00:00

No one gives a fuck about your failures but you. Forget them. Everyone else already has.

Success isn't everything. When you're actively chatting, don't think about it. Enjoy yourself chatting, flirting, or dancing with whoever you're courting.

Your primary concern should be for YOU to have a good time. Getting with people may be part of that, but if you're too focused on getting with someone, chances are you won't. This sort of thing fucks your confidence, you begin to associate getting with someone as the end all and be all of going out. It's not, if you enjoy yourself, you'll feel better in yourself - more confident etc.. then chatting to people is a piece of piss.

Alpha_Apollo · 2013-05-25T11:56:42+00:00

Explore as many different kinds of game theory as possible to see what works best for you, e.g. Mystery Method, Cocky Funny, Stealth etc... This means read as much as possible and watch as many videos as possible.
If possible learn with a friend, as its a lot less daunting and scary if you have a bro to bounce ideas off and help one another learn.
Don't focus too much on lines or pre-canned material, use it to begin with but after a while, just maybe pop an opener and enjoy the set. The reason for this is people tend to get caught up on line learning and all the other pre-open stuff e.g. over the shoulder opening etc... It sounds really cheesy and isn't very helpful but you have to seem/appear/be confident 'Fake it, until you make it'.

Overall dude, good luck with it, you'll have good days with it and bad days, just keep your chin up and power through and you will see changes, trust me.

LoGun_ · 2013-05-25T13:53:54+00:00

If you don't like yourself, you're going to have a serious hard time trying to get anyone else to like you.
You can read and memorise and repeat and chant all you want, but nothing changes till you take action.
You don't know where the line is until you cross it.

HardworkDedication · 2013-05-26T06:34:02+00:00

Get out and meet people first worry about theory later.
Look clean smell good, style is subjective hygiene is not.
Do things that scare the shit out of you so that your fear begins to worry about your balls. (this helps approaching with approaching anyone anywhere in any situation and pretty much every aspect of your life)

richy92d · 2013-05-28T10:17:25+00:00

Open posture and eye contact, try standing with shoulders back, feet slightly pointed out and chin up (not high, just up)
Force yourself to open everything and everyone. Gets you outside of your comfort zone and puts attention on you.
Have fun

StonedWhiteBoy · 2013-05-25T14:26:54+00:00

I was once an introvert myself:

Talk to everyone. Always be talking to somebody, no excuses.
Touch everyone. Same thing.
Step out of your comfort zone. Approach, approach, approach.

This is the road to succes.

adversedeviant · 2013-05-27T00:22:49+00:00

3 second rule

Grooming

Don't expect anything just have fun

Liamblake · 2013-05-25T14:12:57+00:00

Im extremely new to this but the 1 thing that works for me in seduction and pretty much everything in life....

If you fail or lose at anything don't get all mopey or throw a hissy fit. Analyse your performance.Objectively Think about What you did wrong and learn from it

I find if i do this after a loss that frustrated feeling always goes away. Weather its pickup,a game of fifa or even a test

inandofitsself · 2013-05-25T15:13:40+00:00

Don't overthink. You can never predict the outcome of an action, so don't waste your time and energy on that. Just do it.
Don't take yourself too seriously. Laugh at others who do.
Never show disappointment or regret. You'd be surprised to see how many "no's" become "yes's" if you just remain confident and cool at all times.

rednailz · 2013-05-25T16:05:03+00:00

Eye contact: Once you're willing to make eye contact you'll ralize how many people don't want to.
Body language: Read a book. Pay attention to yours first so you "send" the message you want. External body language affects you internally so striking a confident pose makes you confident.
Talk to 5 strangers a day: This is like day 2 of Rules of the Game. Just say something relevant to random stranger in the checkout line or whatever. "Hey, pretty hot today" "What's the deal with all them Kardashians?"

2013-05-25T17:18:43+00:00

you are enough

your not an unnattractive type of guy

you deserve relations with attractive, hot, and interesting women

thebeastfromCanada · 2013-05-25T17:22:15+00:00

1)Force your self to find a reason for your awesomeness EVERY SINGLE FUCKING DAY!

2)Be the party, don't be an asshole though.

3)Don't limit yourself because of a fear of rejection.

AlwaysLateToThreads · 2013-05-25T17:32:42+00:00

(1) Always improve yourself. Work out, learn new skills, read, etc. you'll be much more attractive. (2) Escalate-you'll be accepted or rejected, not friend-zoned. (3) Never fear losing a woman-you'll pass most shit tests, never supplicate, and be immune to oneitis.

Keep my commandments and you will succeed!

takingthe_ · 2013-05-25T18:36:56+00:00

Practice
Practice
Practice

Until you try out all the methods you've read and put the theory to practice, you will see no change. This advice applies to all types of games.

Do to see what can be done.

mescalineeyes · 2013-05-25T19:21:49+00:00

1) groom 2) be well read 3) go for it

Title	If you could give a noob 3 tips for getting into game...
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Date	May 25, 2013 3:44 AM UTC (13 years ago)
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