I'm a chubby guy. How do I proceed?

DanishApollon · 2017-08-05T20:37:34+00:00

Hit the gym and diet? Don't chase the girls. Attract them.

2017-08-05T22:35:26+00:00

Lose weight. People will actually compliment you when you lose weight and girls take 2nd looks when they would normally pass you by. Don't underestimate the doors opened when you are fit.

CollectedData · 2017-08-06T07:35:21+00:00

Is being chubby your destiny? Why do you think about yourself as ,,the chubby guy"? It's not a permanent condition or some shit. The great thing about being overweight, among other factors lowering one's attractiveness is, that you don't have to be fat. Being good looking is not effortless and you should learn it.

immenseimme · 2017-08-05T20:48:39+00:00

Get in shape, it will have a positive impact on all areas of your life. It's not mandatory for pickup; to a certain extend it helps, just as getting some nice clothes, having a beautiful face or a lot of money, but in the end it's all about your game, and none of the above will bring you any success standing alone.

How do I maximize my chances of being successful with women

Buy clothes that fit you and that fit your personal style. They don't have to be super-edgy or creative, plain T-Shirts and Jeans that fit you well do the job too.

edit: typos

batman1177 · 2017-08-05T19:50:17+00:00

Confidence, humour, personality, the usual. Or you could always get into the shape that you want.

Hector_Castillo · 2017-08-05T21:43:58+00:00

If she's skinnier than you, tell her that she's fat. The neg should get her chasing.

/s

Get ripped. Should take 6-8 months max. You can naturally and healthily lose 2lbs/week. That's 48lbs in 6 months. I doubt you're 48lbs overweight. After that point, once you're lean, pack on muscle by eating 10% more calories than you need to sustain your current weight and keep lifting as you always have.

Another three or four months and you're buff.

Then it's GG.

DirkDieGurke · 2017-08-06T03:34:14+00:00

Lose the weight. In the meantime... your personality needs to be ON POINT! Do AWESOME shit. Be a LEADER in your social circle.

brianbria · 2017-08-06T04:18:24+00:00

How do I proceed?

As normal.

How do I maximize my chances of being successful with women, considering I'm not in great shape?

I'm chubby too and made out with two girls in two nights. I think taking fuck loads of action, being honest and unapolgoetic is way more attractive and much more important than a bit of extra weight. Fat guys can get with attractive women if they know they are the shit.

However if you are obese or severely overweight this will drop your chances a lot even if you are confident.

Either way if you are insecure about your weight/body image and this is damaging your confidence or damaging your results with women the obvious answer is lose weight.

How do you lose weight?

Burn more calories than you consume. Eat less, exercise more. That's all there is too it. Power walk/jog 40 min to an hour a day, and stop eating shit food, and eat a bit less then usual, and you will lose weight.

chaosandmayhem · 2017-08-06T04:28:28+00:00

First thing you have to do is get on a good lifting program and lose the weight. Losing fat/gaining muscle will do a lot of good for your self-confidence.

But, until you manage to do that, try to wear clothing that doesn't draw attention to it.

DaygameCoach · 2017-08-06T04:31:36+00:00

The obvious answer is diet and start an exercise program. Read and apply all the sidebar help and work on your actual game. Approach women, be clear in your intent, and escalate.

BTW, I know men who are heavy and still get hotties. I'm short and a little chubby myself. :)

SigmaCronos · 2017-08-06T06:05:29+00:00

Intermittent fasting. Good stuff, look into it.

Title	I'm a chubby guy. How do I proceed?
Author	Kabous0017
Upvotes	6
Comments	13
Date	August 5, 2017 7:45 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/6rttir/im_a_chubby_guy_how_do_i_proceed/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/seduction/im-a-chubby-guy-how-do-i-proceed.1431564 https://theredarchive.com/post/1431564

Comments