I'm about ask for her number...how do I calm down?

throwawayodd33 · 2015-01-25T20:03:45+00:00

Let me tell you something I've learned. The first time I asked for a girl's number, I was a shaking mess. Now, I still get nervous before I do it, but it's so much more easy. What can they do, say no? That's simply her saying you two aren't compatible, nothing to sweat about.

A phone number isn't a big deal at all. Most girls hand them out like candy as long as you're even slightly friendly towards them. Even if she says no, focus on the conversation, and how you acted, where you could be better. It's just one girl, you'll easily hit on over 100 in your life.

farning10 · 2015-01-25T18:54:24+00:00

Don't fucking hesitate mate

seducer4real · 2015-01-25T19:23:11+00:00

The fact that you made this thread, it is going to make you hesitate even more. Because youre bombarding you mind with so much information that it is not sure what to do, so you might back out. Stop making it so complicated, asking for a number is simple. You simply ask for a number. Done. You do not make a thread about how to ask for a number. This will lead to all KINDS of resistances in your mind. Trust me , if youre trying to memorize a script, or learn all these stupid pickup techniques, i gaurantee you wont even use a single one.

So use 1 technique only : common sense. Once you have mastered that, then you can move on to more advanced techniques, there is no 1 way to mix these techniques together except to grab each one by its balls, beat the shit out of it till the point where it becomes second nature, then you want to move on to the next one until ALL become second nature.

As a wise man once said : "simplicity is the ultimate sophistication".

so how simple is it to ask a girl for her number? " so what is your number?" , there is a very high chance she will give you. So dont get excited, lol, the odds are in your favour.

Did i just say dont get excited?

yes , judging y your post, you look like you will be very happy to get her digits, but let me tell you. Until she turns up to the date, dont be too happy. A lot of girls give their numbers out, and a lot of girls flake.

peace out

if u need some more specific tips, just reply to this. And remember, dont overcomplicate shit.

zomgitsduke · 2015-01-26T18:44:00+00:00

Drive yourself over the edge and just do it. It's a crazy awesome feeling the first time it works

Title	I'm about ask for her number...how do I calm down?
Author	sheneversaysthat
Upvotes	3
Comments	14
Date	January 25, 2015 6:38 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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