I'm interesting, but not fun. How should I fix this?

pmid85 · 2019-12-30T03:29:18+00:00

vocal tonality can be learned

watch & mimmic successful guys that are playful, but not mean.

Lines01 · 2019-12-30T08:03:55+00:00

Have you tried clown classes?

7GoodVibes · 2019-12-30T17:29:11+00:00

I highly doubt it’s the speech pattern itself, but rather the emotions behind it.

Accessing your own emotions is critical in order to convey and share emotions. Notice how a great storyteller evokes the emotions? That’s because they know how to express a touch of those emotions as they tell the story.

That means they’ve practiced feeling those emotions.

For those people who don’t have flexibility in emotions, it will take some effort, but the results are a game changer.

An old drill for this is to simply play a game of picking an emotion, such as happiness, and to feel it to the farthest extent that you can. Then switch it over to feeling deep sadness, as deep as you can. Practice whatever emotions you would most benefit from, and practice a variety, daily.

This gives flexibility and the ability to switch emotions in mere moments, meaning YOU control your emotions rather than your emotions controlling you.

excitement2k · 2019-12-30T03:26:00+00:00

I am not an expert, but I bet the resounding repeated advice is to embrace your distinct speaking style and instead focus on what you’re saying. People listen to someone who has something important or something that is said well and that will attract positive attention regardless of your tonality or pace with any gender.

STD_Tyler · 2019-12-30T13:20:50+00:00

Open a word file and write canned jokes for different situations . Do you think stand up comedians improvise ??

Dunc0ne · 2019-12-30T15:31:34+00:00

Learn to listen to what a girl wants. Ask incisive question. My experience is that this gives me a depth of insight in to what she might enjoy while also in no way detracting from my pull.

kyzen142 · 2020-01-01T00:05:54+00:00

Be more emotionally expressive. Practice Filming your self telling a story and expressing your self with a lot of emotions.

Title	I'm interesting, but not fun. How should I fix this?
Author	AdviceSeekingBro
Upvotes	16
Comments	10
Date	December 30, 2019 1:49 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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