I'm stuck with a girl

AllMyPillsRojo · 2024-05-31T23:15:46+00:00

Hello stranger on the internet.

I will tell you that I did the exact same thing as you when I was younger. I thought sex would be this ultra mind blowing experience and it got to the point where I was willing to sleep with anyone.

Well…I did, and it turns out the sex got old very quickly and soon I was stuck with a girl I was not attracted to and had a horrible personality.

If I were you, I would just tell her a version of the truth. Tell her, at the beginning you thought you were a match and it turns out you’re just too different.

This isn’t really a lie, because you never really know if you’re compatible at the beginning of a relationship.

SaaSWriters · 2024-05-31T23:49:48+00:00

I'm stuck with a girl

No, you're not.

You are afraid you won't get sex if you break up with her.

But let's take it you're saying the truth. Tell her all you want is sex.

Also tell me how do I get a girl who doesn't want anything serious?

When you approach women, tell them what you want. Let go of the ones who don't want the same thing. Sleep with the ones who only want sex.

Why haven't you done that already?

From_God_to_Dog · 2024-05-31T23:18:34+00:00

Honestly this will sound fucked up but your not married just cheat bruh, they'll take that better than rejection, just make her leave you or keep her till you find something

schadeyone · 2024-06-01T05:13:39+00:00

Don’t play games and don’t be wishy washy. Be an adult. Rip the band aid off. It’ll be better for her and you. Just say hey we need to talk. This is working for me and I need to find the right relationship for me and you should do the same. Take care.

Several_Ad_8363 · 2024-06-01T06:18:37+00:00

Honestly just say you only want sex from her. There are accepted and understood polite phrases for this, such as "We're moving fast and I don't want to get too serious." And just never do anything with her except invite her to "chill" at your place. Hopefully it will happily devolve into a fwb type situation but if it doesn't then shecwill leave if she doesn't accept your terms.

She may actually feel the same way. Particularly if you're both relatively young.

Broad-Cranberry-9050 · 2024-06-04T19:08:46+00:00

Dude, alot of us have been there. Especially as guys, before our first time we think we have to lose it soon. Then when we hear all our friends have been losing it so we get desperate, like you don’t want to be the last person on the island. Youre experiencing a version of post-nut clarity. You were horny, saw a girl willing to do it with you but didnt take anything else into consideration. Once you came you realized you werent really into this girl but since it was your first experience you chalked it up to inexperience. Things like this happen.

More importantly do not think that you are stuck. Remove that thought from your mind. You should never feel stuck with someone no matter how hard it seems to break up. I dont think you even have to tell this girl that you used her. You can just say that you arent really feeling it anymore but you enjoyed the time together but you each should look elsewhere. Especially since itndoesnt sound like you want to keep having sex with her. Dont let the fear of lack of sex keep you with someone. Nobody is going to hold that against you. Tellingnher that you just used her to nut and realized the sex isnt good is not going to help anyone.

some_kind_of_friend · 2024-06-01T00:57:09+00:00

Deliberately disenchant her. Make it her idea to break up by behaving badly, then, when she suggests it (breaking up) jump on it so fast we all feel the world spin backward a bit.

Naturally, you may ask how to disenchant her? Well, you can come on to her hot and heavy (not like trying to sleep with her come on to her) but just endlessly fill up her space with you. Don't give her a second to breathe without you being there. Emote endlessly about your feelings. Tell her all your insecurities and I mean really, lay them all out and lay it on thick. Nothing will cause a woman to lose interest in you faster than giving her no space and dumping a bunch of emotional vomit on her.... not even 3's will put up with it for long.

You could also push that further. Does she want kids? You don't. Doesn't want kids? You want a dozen of them. She says white? You say black. Be insufferable about everything. Feel free to know it all and don't hold back. Mansplain, and admit to doing it.

When she decides she wants a break, which, she will, endlessly apologize. Beg for forgiveness. Write her long letters of apologies. Go on and on about how much you want her back and how much you want to fix things. How she's the only girl for you etc. This will seal the deal.

Nothing makes them turn and burn faster. Two days and she'll turn tail lol.

Title	I'm stuck with a girl
Author	bhaagjasale
Upvotes	0
Comments	12
Date	May 31, 2024 11:10 PM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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