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[–]ProjectPickup 2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
Direct for daygame. Indirect for night game.
During the day, I want her to know that I'm hitting on her and I'm not just having a friendly conversation. I do this by flat out telling her I wanted to meet her because I thought she was cute. I also think this demonstrates confidence because most guys don't have the balls to walk up to a girl in the middle of the day and tell her that she's cute.
At night, she knows that I'm hitting on her, so I don't have to say it. It's just the nature of the bar scene.
[–]secondpua 2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Direct and situational. Direct show intent. Cuts the bullshit. It is also not a big jump from "your really cute" to "hi my name is secondpua". I also do situational because sometimes stuff happens and it's better to respond to that then just randomly go direct. Indirect just feels too forced to me.
[–]onetothehouse -1 points0 points1 point 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Indirect for daygame, direct for nightgame.
I like to feel the vibe in daygame and if she seems interested then maybe grab her number at the end. It will have a feeling of fate, even though I know better than that.
For nightgame, it's often too loud or busy to have a good conversation so you have to do lots of kino and show your intentions more directly.
[–]h2opete 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Totally the opposite - because everyone goes direct at night, she has her shield up. Indirect in the day and she might not think you're interested.
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