Initial Kino, how aggressive are you touching in a bar/club with touching as you open?

breadrising · 2012-05-31T23:10:06+00:00

How aggressive I am depends on the situation, but when I'm in superman mode I tend to be as physical as the environment calls for. Are we on a dancefloor? Then I'm grinding, pulling, spinning, and taking her in close. Are we just chilling by the bar? I'll touch the shoulder, put my arm around her, play silly games (thumb wrestling, stupid stuff like that), and so on. If we're alone and isolated, I'll touch the leg and maybe go in for the makeout.

But overall, just let kino flow. Get her associated with touch early on (you meet her and instead of shaking hands, go for a goofy fist bump, a one armed hug, secret "bestfriend" hand shake) so she knows that to you touching isn't a big deal and that you're a touchy person. She'll be more receptive and will likely start touching you back in the process. Just build from there.

Delightful_White · 2012-05-31T23:22:54+00:00

If I was out for a one night stand, every approach I did involved some kino right off the bat. Whether it be a high five or a hug or whatever, it's a good way to guage how open she is to futher phsyical contact. If I walked up to a girl and gave her a hug and pretended she was old friend and she played along, I know I'm headed down the right path. If I touch her shoulder while talking to her and she seems timid, I would politely excuse myself and move on to the next one and repeat the process until something hooks. No sense wasting time when you're really just looking for a hookup. Even if you're just trying to get numbers, your flake rate will probably decrease as well.

Read up on Brad P's "20 minute go nowhere set.". He talks a lot about being very physical upfront to see which girls were down, and which ones weren't. It's a good way of not wasting time in a stale set and your lay rate will increase (assuming you have semi-decent game) because of it.

Necronomiconomics · 2012-06-01T05:22:04+00:00

Don't be aggressive. Be assertive. There's a difference.

jk147 · 2012-06-01T06:07:18+00:00

Look over DiCarlo's escalation ladder. Just like approaches you will have to go and just do it, there is really no art into touch a shoulder while laughing, gentle nudge...etc.

jewiger · 2012-06-01T03:10:44+00:00

I've fingered girls in bars truestory.jpg

Title	Initial Kino, how aggressive are you touching in a bar/club with touching as you open?
Author	magicroot75
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Date	May 31, 2012 10:59 PM UTC (14 years ago)
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