Insecure over social circle

TheXXL · 2016-04-05T08:18:48+00:00

Anyone else insecure over their social circle when meeting girls (e.g. she won't like me because i don't have many friends around)?

Nope. Why should someone be insecure about that? I have few friends, and i differentiate clearly between friends and people i know. So when it comes to how many friends i have, i can say i have maybe 6 or 7 friends, and an uncountable amount of people who i know but don't really care about. This number is not big, bit it is a quality sign, since i choose my friends carefully.

eviiil · 2016-04-05T13:18:58+00:00

A few friends in a new city is pretty good.

Even if you don't have a few friends, it's a new city, who gives a shit. Just tell her it's a new city.

The phenomenon of her not liking you because of this will never happen, now get out of your head and go do some approaches.

rodgaaa · 2016-04-05T07:57:57+00:00

Well i think social proof is a factor. But it does not have a lot of influence. Just be cool about it and she will not mind

Murfdigidy · 2016-04-05T13:18:20+00:00

It's easy for someone to say no I feel fine with few friends but that's a lie we're all human and facts remain people are more confident when surrounded by people they like.

In this case honesty is your best friend. Many people will understand you are new to the city and don't have a big circle of friends, I mean who would? Don't let the fact you just moved to a city detract you from making new friends, many people have done what you did and adapted fine. It's not gonna happen over night but keep putting yourself out there and good things will happen

AnderAdams · 2016-04-05T18:17:27+00:00

You live in a new city. They would be a little ignorant not to understand that you don't have a massive social circle just yet. Have you simply explained that. "I'm knew to the area and have been a little to busy to be out making new friends constantly. Starting to make time for it now. I'm used to having my group of friends that are always ready to hang out..."

Title	Insecure over social circle
Author	starwars765
Upvotes	3
Comments	5
Date	April 5, 2016 7:40 AM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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