I recently went out to the bar for the first time since being single. Long story short I ended up meeting a girl at the bar and went back to her place in like the first 35 minutes of being at the bar. I’ve been on the apps for the past two months and literally have not gotten a single like (im vertically challenged) So I started to believe the narrative in my head that I’m unlikable. Then I go out to the bar and immediately find someone. I’m guessing in the real world confidence matters no matter what.