I've been in the scene seriously for the past 2 years, doing both online game and sarging (3-4x/wk. - both solo and sober as well as with like-minded friends).

I have no problem getting the first or second night lay (I never stick around for a third night if there's no lay), but I have noticed that with girls whom I have slept with, it is difficult to see them again.

They either take days to return my call or text, or they do agree to meet but adamantly state that sex is off the table. I am also the one always initiating. I am not initiating every weekend like a typical horny male, but I am initiating once or twice a week and I don't know my way around this.

Initiation may give off the "needy" approach, but initiation will lead to something either getting laid again or the relationship will come to a head (ie. fuck off).

I have so many phone numbers of girls in my phone whom I have slept with and would love to sleep with again on rotation, but it's harder than it seems. Can anybody offer some advice on this predicament? My only solution now is "take it or leave it" and "finding other girls".