Is it even worth approaching?

Fudo_Shin · 2017-10-15T17:21:54+00:00

Why not both? You can focus on getting a better life and approach girls. Just dont be needy, thats probably the biggest attraction killer. If you workout in a gym you can approach girls there, be genuinely interested in them.

Just take one small step at a time. Cold approaching is hard when you dont have much experience, maybe its better to start going somewhere where meeting new people is nothing unusual, like the gym, a dancing class or something.

If you can talk to guys you can also talk to girls, you are probably just thinking to much... When you talk to a guy you dont care if he will like you, use the same principle when talking to a girl

rg3mfer · 2017-10-15T20:07:23+00:00

Why not? Millions of people get laid without ever hearing of game, just the fact that yiu know about it and approach a girl is an advantage, most guys don't approach ever. Start approaching women, and improve your life at the same time!

galactic_fury · 2017-10-16T00:27:24+00:00

The sidebar has a link on learning pickup. I will leave the last paragraph here:

You can’t find time. You don’t drink (you don’t have to, btw). You don’t like clubs. You’re too ugly to ever love. Whatever. I’m not going to argue with you. You’re absolutely right. Enjoy never getting laid.

DocDaygame · 2017-10-15T19:30:57+00:00

Don't think too much in years. Set short time goals. This way you often will have a bit success and small lifts.

NunoHimself · 2017-10-15T20:25:01+00:00

Should you make an effort to get laid and get laid after some months or should you work on your life while jerking off in the shower? You choose. You're not an hardcase btw.

Alextryingforgrate · 2017-10-16T01:13:50+00:00

One thing i do is small talk cashiers when i buy something at a store, coffee shop, corner store etc. Just a hey how is your day going. Nothing more than that. Smile at her no matter how not your type she is. The smile will get you going, at least it does for me. You might as well work on making some part of your life better might as well be social skills those will help you a ton later in life anyways.

Jacked2TheTits · 2017-10-16T01:25:46+00:00

Women provide an immediate feedback about your growth, confidence and inner self worth. I can travel to a new city, hell, a new country and still have decent interactions with women. It has nothing to do with your friends, hobbies and other bullshit that you are saying here. Granted that all helps, but it is NOT necessary if you are comfortable with who you are. You should definitely be approaching everyone, not just women... it sounds like your problem is that you are not comfortable letting people know who you are and your personality (why you have no close friends). You are probably a people pleaser and that is NOT a good thing.

When you have an attractive lifestyle, it helps you in meeting and keeping high caliber girls, but you should be doing that as a byproduct of the life you are living and want to live, not for the women.

Throwaway3543g59 · 2017-10-15T17:25:42+00:00

You gotta start somewhere, It really depends on the setting, I would start with small talk, try to come up with a good excuse to break the ice, then work from there. Pay attention to her eye contact, body, they will help you gauge her interest. If she isn’t interest just move on. Or if you want you can become friends with her.

Title	Is it even worth approaching?
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Date	October 15, 2017 4:55 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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