Is it just me...?

Epoh · 2011-11-10T10:12:38+00:00

It's just you. Don't know where you live but in edmonton Canada, white chicks seem to go for a lot of brown guys. Simply put, I think they have better game then a lot of white guys. No clue where the confidence comes from but they seem to have it.

ImKumarYo · 2011-11-10T18:32:04+00:00

My observation as a brown man is that it's significantly easier for me to attract darker ladies. Not sure that means white girls don't like Indians/etc as much but I definitely see white girls as taking more work.

frogma · 2011-11-10T19:45:47+00:00

Depends man. The main thing though is if you start thinking like that, it's gonna fuck you up regardless. What good does it do you to just assume "white girls only go for white guys"? Does that mean you're just gonna stop going for white girls, or what? That aint good either way.

Yeah, it's pretty true that people of a certain race/nationality tend to go for people of that same race/nationality. Not only do white people tend to go for white people, but Polish people tend to go for Polish people, Koreans tend to go for Koreans, etc.

Just from my experience and from what I've seen, I've seen far more white girls with black guys than black girls with white guys. But I've been with black chicks before, so who cares if there's some sort of stigma about shit? The only way it can affect me personally is if I allow it to. Otherwise I just ignore it, and if I get bad vibes from someone, I attribute that to some other factor (maybe they're having a bad day, maybe I didn't build enough attraction or whatever)- basically, I ignore the shit that can't be changed, and I focus on the shit that can. That's the only outlook that'll actually benefit you. Any other outlook is just a limiting belief- even if it's "true," it's gonna fuck up the way you approach similar situations in the future.

NotFromReddit · 2011-11-10T21:09:25+00:00

Except if they have jungle fever.

CunningLanguageUser · 2011-11-10T09:39:11+00:00

http://blog.okcupid.com/index.php/your-race-affects-whether-people-write-you-back/

Bear in mind, despite the scary colours, it's a significant but relatively slight difference in percentages, not many times more difficult or anything.

The reason is probably because you're living in a culture where non-whites are a minority. As such you can probably use it as peacocking as you're already more noticeable.

Also, on a personal basis, I had an ex who lusted after black men, and I found it a little disconcertning considering my snow white tan.

457-55-5462 · 2011-11-11T00:28:01+00:00

I don't think so. I am a Mexican and have no trouble with white girls. Well, besides standard female craziness.

Title	Is it just me...?
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	1
Comments	9
Date	November 10, 2011 6:01 AM UTC (14 years ago)
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