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[–]2udaylatif 27 points28 points29 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Should be satisfying. If it isn't then examine your own desires and thoughts on the matter. What is it you are really looking for in "chasing pussy"? Validation? Acceptance? Ego satisfaction? Status?
Getting with a woman you desire should be satisfying. If you have resorted to making her a notch on your belt of course it is empty. You aren't even looking at her like a person. You are cheapening the experience.
[–]geraltsface 3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Perfectly said.
[–]akareeno 11 points12 points13 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Short term satisfaction, long term emptiness
[–][deleted] 5 points6 points7 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
i don't know why there are so many people who will come to defend PUA/seduction like it isn't anything more than a glorified ego trip. source: i've been doing game on/off since i was 18, 27 now. i always end up getting "what i wanted" but it was at the expense of a lot of things. maybe it was my own personal issues that were making it bad, but look at tyler/julian, do you think these guys really changed after years of doing that same shit over and over again?
they just want to sell you on the next course, and for a long time i believed them that there was some shiny light at the end of the road. but there's not. it's just a fucking dark hole.
[–][deleted] 8 points9 points10 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah I felt like this when I started game and got my first lay but my mind wasn’t in a good place actually. Fuck the pussy you’ll get it I think it’s more enjoying the process like the topvoted guy said it’s just a notch it’ll feel empty. Enjoy texting talking to them going out with them sex will happen eventually bro it’ll feel good for a while then that feeling goes away you want to make a memorable moment in both your lives you got one life live it like a movie
[–]Engineering-Sudden 3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Don't chase which sucks your energy, but what gives you more energy to chase.
[–]seaweedpotential 3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Not an 'emptiness', but the 'high' feeling if she is into you and you get her, only lasts a day or so for me.
It's interesting that even now that i know sex is a bit over-rated if i'm being quite honest, it's also all I can think about! haha (when you see a really pretty girl, the thought of banging her consumes me)
[–]yurifca 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Scoring is always nice, but the aftermath is not that great.
Lets suppose you had a date, you both had sex and a great time and nothing more happened.
Next day you're left the same way you were before it, just a little bit more confident (but this buff doesn't last forever).
So, it is satisfying, but it doesn't matter so much if it's just a booty call or w/e
[–]Siiikeliiike 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If you're chasing pussy, then yes. If you're chasing for the end goal of having a relationship, then it shouldn't feel empty.
[–]John_Wick_Detroit 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
If it's taking you months you're doing it wrong.
[–]silverbird666 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I would even say if it takes weeks its done wrong.
[–]Novke1337 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I always feel like maybe i coulda done better
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It’s great. Very satisfying. In the short & long term. If not, could be low-T or mental health issues.
this post is a mood
[–]Grizzlies5003 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It is when you lay the pipe so well that they never should have doubted you in the first place lol
[–]STD_Tyler 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It is the best feeling in the world if she is the girl of your dreams that you later fall in love with. Totally worth every rejection and humiliation you got in your journey to her...
[–]OrzhovPalatine 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
It's completely unsatisfying and empty. You basically think to yourself "that was it? I wasted my time for that?"
However its important you get it out of your system cause you realize you shouldnt be chasing women in the first place.
[–]STD_Tyler 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
You wasted your time with sleeping with a beautiful girl? What are the better things to do with your time?
You shouldn't be chasing women? You should work on your career and hobbies and they will magically come without any chasing, right?
[–]OrzhovPalatine 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
They do actually because they want to be part of your world.
I didnt get it either at the time but when I used work as a club promoter I didnt need to do anything to get girls as I had enough social proof and pre selection they'd just give me IOIs and make it really easy.
Prior to this I was day/night gaming and thought that was the only way to get girls. You should still do this to build your foundation but ultimately the best game is no game.
[–]STD_Tyler 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
And what if I am a successful lawyer and not a club promoter ? How would they magically come, explain? Like we hit our trolleys in the supermarket like the movies? Or wait for them to approach me?
[–]OrzhovPalatine 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I work with lawyers and they tend to be quite confident and full of themselves, traits that our interns find quite attractive.
The only difference between a lawyer and a club promoter is their jobs give them different access levels to women and their vibe is different
When girls approach us they dont do it the same way we do it. For example last week I was at the grocery store and there was a girl there who was eye fucking me and just happened to linger in the same aisle as me. This is her way of approaching me.
The thing is order to get to that point you need to do the bitch work of approaching girls to get the thrist out of your system and learn nonverbals.
[–]SlapHappyDonut61 -1 points0 points1 point 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Kind of an emptiness in my opinion. Idk why, it just feels more so your need is satisfied and then there is nothing
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