Is kino mandatory ?

ThrowawayPUA · 2017-09-13T20:55:51+00:00

You will have to touch a woman eventually, if you expect to put your penis in her vagina.

TheLimitlessMale · 2017-09-14T00:26:40+00:00

Yes.

It will multiply how often you get laid.

You need to figure out why you don't like touching people though. That shit is going to hold you back.

p1243 · 2017-09-13T20:43:07+00:00

You dont need kino if you dont like it. If you are uncomfortable, she will be uncomfortable. Just remember to have a man dynamic with her - not a friend one.

nonsass · 2017-09-13T22:21:07+00:00

Funnily enough, in his most recent stuff, JulienRSD says that it's not necessary at all. (until you're literally in the bedroom. Like throwawaypua says, you have to touch her eventually if you want to bang her!)

Most advice is to touch early, often and escalate. Like, approach girl at bar, chat, touch using the Di Carlo escalation ladder etc and I too tend to think it's best to veer on the side of DO KINO rather than AVOID it, but Julien has shown a few pulls now in which the actual interaction itself is just him self amusing, passing shit tests, leading the interaction, and then going back to the girls house, and there was almost zero touch during the whole interaction

So I guess it's not quite the deal -breaker that I always thought it was although, like I say, I think still think it's best to kino than to not, personally

Valor0us · 2017-09-13T21:43:06+00:00

You'll have to elaborate why you don't like touching people. Is it because it makes you uncomfortable or you think it'll make them uncomfortable?

If it makes you uncomfortable, you can work on that. Just do something simple like touch her shoulder for a moment. As you get more comfortable with it, you can try holding her hand when you walk or lead her through a door with your hand on her lower back.

If you're worried about making the girl uncomfortable then just be socially aware. If she looks uncomfortable at all then back off. If she smiling or touches you back, you're golden.

TheExplodingKitten · 2017-09-13T21:47:57+00:00

You need to start getting comfortable with it. It's a life skill. Start slow. Like touching shoulder of upper back.

mcr00sterdota · 2017-09-14T08:00:28+00:00

Yes but you have to be chill about it. If you do something she doesn't like, pull away, laugh about it and ask how she feels.

GET_IN_THE_VAN · 2017-09-14T09:57:21+00:00

Could you be more specific? Obviously, you will need to touch a girl at some point if you want to have sex with her. Do you mean you don't like touching them in public? or too soon?

Lambdal7 · 2017-09-14T13:34:06+00:00

Yes, Kino is almost the most important thing. Without Kino, your dates will go nowhere

recyclablebanthas · 2017-09-14T16:10:09+00:00

Is kino mandatory ?

Another vote for yes.

Everyone else has pretty much covered plenty of reasons why this is.

TheXXL · 2017-09-13T23:51:00+00:00

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Title	Is kino mandatory ?
Author	BroSonDude
Upvotes	8
Comments	23
Date	September 13, 2017 8:39 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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