Is she a high ball?

YinMaestro · 2026-08-12T19:26:39+00:00

Go after it.

thatsafuckingoat · 2026-08-12T19:28:48+00:00

You’re not delusional, you’re just underdressed for the game she’s used to playing. The Peugeot doesn’t matter; your attitude does. If you act like you’re trying to impress her, you lose, embarrassingly. If you act like you’re just hanging out and happen to be the most interesting guy in the room, you win. Since it’s a group setup, don’t stare at her, charm her friend, make everyone laugh, and then drop one sharp, playful comment that isolates her in that moment. Show her you’re secure enough to drive a 206 and not give a shit, because that’s exactly the kind of unbothered confidence a rich girl from Monaco is starving for. Go in relaxed, leave early, and let her chase the vibe you created.

razama · 2026-08-12T19:35:57+00:00

I have two friends who married into money.

I think it isn’t a question of “can I have her interested in me? Will she want to marry me?”

I’ve seen it happen. Twice. Baristas meet millionaire’s daughters and get married.

But you should be honest about your own values. She is used to a certain lifestyle, are you going to be cool saying, “Sorry, can’t afford that” or to grind for those things?

But in the short term, it’s zero issue if she is into you. Daughters of millionaires get something out of staying in a crap apt in a dangerous neighborhood with a guy she is into. It’s what happens in the long term that might cause resentment on both sides of you don’t be proactive.

Orange_Codex · 2026-08-12T22:56:40+00:00

So the thing I wanted to question is do I have a chance with this girl or am I delusional?

Wealthy background here (albeit not Monaco wealthy): I think you have a chance. The ultra-rich aren't often snobs. Wildly out of touch, but not snobs.

Whatever you do, don't do what an acquaintance of mine did and date a girl worth north of £50,000,000 only to cheat on her. It's been ten years but I bet he beats himself up every day about that.

Alternative-Tip-1931 · 2026-08-13T13:27:51+00:00

Where do you even find wealthy girls?

Western-Month-3877 · 2026-08-12T19:59:09+00:00

Kids of wealthy parents aren’t typically snobbish. It’s usually the ones from lower or middle class background who like to take advantage of anything (free dinner on dates) or try to prove something they’re not (bling bling and designer products).

I would take a chance if I were you. If her dad is really that rich then she’s probably used to guys flaunting money in front of her just to show her that they’re equal, which is almost always the wrong move. People like her generally love things that they don’t have, which in this case NOT money.

Title	Is she a high ball?
Author	Easy_Manager3026
Upvotes	8
Comments	8
Date	August 12, 2026 7:23 PM UTC (4 days ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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