(IDK if this is the right sub for this but here it goes)
So there's this person, a girl, whom with I share a couple of classes with at uni, and I think she might be into me, but I'm not quiet sure; in fact, if I had to make a guess, I'd say she's not and it's all just in my head, but it's the number of bizarre mixed messages I'm getting from her that's really confusing me. So now I just wanted to know what you all think about it.
So first of all, there's the secret stares. More often than not, I'll find myself occasionally taking a looking about, whether it be to stretch my body, look at another direction where someone is pointing or just taking a look around me, I'll notice the girl staring directly at me from within my blind spot (usually from behind me), who will then quickly look away as to avoid direct eye contact (it's a bit hard to explain, but you know that thing where someone stares at someone and when the other person notices they try to look away as fast possible as to avoid detection but the other person still catches a glimpse of them anyway? well, it's like that). And it's not just once that this has happened either, (If it was, I'd have just waved it off as a coincidence, but) I find this happening multiple times, sometimes even twice or thrice a day.
Then there are the PV messages. This one time, I needed to deliver some paper work, but had forgotten the date by which I had to hand it over, and thus worried that I had passed my deadline, so I went around asking some of my classmates (including the girl in question) about the date, to no avail. until, that evening when I got home, I saw the girl had texted me in privet, telling about the date and how a could hurry and that it wasn't to late; this struck my as pretty odd, as she knew nothing about it when I'd asked her earlier that day, meaning she had to have come home and actively search for the answers I was looking for to help me, even though she wasn't obliged to do so at all. Something similar happened again when she texted me in privet some time later that the a class I wanted to attend was quickly filling up, warning me to act now, when, again, she didn't have to. In both instances a lot of my other friends knew about my situation as well, but she was really the only one to help and actively go out of her way to do so (Are my other friends just assholes?)
I've also shared a lot of my personal fears and thoughts with her, and she was very help full in consoling me and helping me deal with them. She even chats with me via text and is open to talking about not class related stuff, unlike most other girls in my class.
But what really confuses me is that despite the fact she has done more to help me in my life that anybody outside of my family ever has, she insets that were just classmates (not even friends), again, I think it might just be me conflating a persons good intentions with a romantic interests, but I've never been really good at understanding other people.
So does she really like me? or am I just delusional?
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