I'm meeting an ecologist woman for a first date tomorrow. Asked her if she wanted to go to an aquarium. So we're doing that. I haven't met her in person yet, don't even know what her voice sounds like, just met online. I have the ability to setup petting some of the animals and stuff (i have connections). would this be too much for a first meetup? I just don't want to seem like im bribing her. I'm guessing your answers will be go for it and im overthinking it but could just use some validation. Thanks.