Is this weird?

Psychocist · 2016-11-12T18:07:48+00:00

This just means you enjoy foreplay more than penetration. As long as you enjoy both, nothing to talk about. Most women will appreciate your focus on foreplay.

prefrontex · 2016-11-12T18:17:10+00:00

I think you're just craving intimacy, has it been a while since you had a truly rewarding intimate relationship?

rustoof · 2016-11-12T18:40:49+00:00

jackzander · 2016-11-12T18:53:10+00:00

Does the penetration make it seem less sensual? You don't have to change the pace just because your dick is in her.

monkeyman114 · 2016-11-12T21:00:49+00:00

Its called foreplay, and yes you should not only like it, but be good at it. You don't need to tell her, just do it with her, she will learn what you like and you will learn what she likes. I found out that my GF loves getting her neck kissed and her earlobes gently sucked. Whenever I want to ramp up the temperature I just go for the neck now...

KeepMeInCheck · 2016-11-13T03:20:25+00:00

Have you ever fantasized about being with a same sex partner? I had a buddy that felt the same way when he was with a woman, and ended up coming to the conclusion it was his suppressed by Christianity brain giving him hints about his true sexuality. I'm not calling you gay by any means, just a thought.

Noosterdam · 2016-11-13T00:18:00+00:00

Not weird in modern society, with a carb-heavy diet, a lot of analysis, etc. In certain people, this pattern of modern living makes for more focus on the communicative aspects of sensual interactions, which is excellent for pair bonding. Just note that if you are trying to keep it no-strings-attached, she may get some mixed messages from that (as biologically the system you are accessing here is designed mainly for pair bonding), so compensate accordingly. It can be hard to walk the line and try to get the best aspects of a romance without getting her (and you) too emotionally attached.

Aeon199 · 2016-11-13T06:54:56+00:00

You mean, like, sexy azz?

DollTarts · 2016-11-13T11:40:27+00:00

No. Thats not weird. She might even feel the same.

chazeyourself · 2016-11-12T20:21:56+00:00

First things first - what makes a relationship work- is telling her straight up man! She will probably agree with you unless she's the horny type...

I think thats totally normal or maybe Im the same....a relatioship based on sex alone is rubbish. Personally If I had a choice Id rather be intimate with my girl through cuddling, kissing and whatever than only penetration... It is what is more valuable to you and in your case you value closeness and intimacy rather than ordinary copulation..

So in order words, you are not infatuated and you are more likely to love her for what she is...rather than by the great sex you have with her

MorelloLuke991 · 2016-11-13T00:10:26+00:00

Not weird at all. But know that the penetration part can be very different on different types of girls (not only physically). Just experiment freely with it and be open and honest.

Tommy_Tukyuk · 2016-11-13T07:11:11+00:00

Some girls don't like penetration either, and assume the role because they think the guy wants it.

You could tell her, but she will either feel nonchalant about it, or worry that you're not going to enjoy it even if she wants it.

Title	Is this weird?
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	22
Comments	12
Date	November 12, 2016 5:37 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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